i would honestly seek counseling for the both of you to put your feelings out there it seems to me like he has trouble with his emotions like theyre just scrambled in there and the way he lets them out is not appropriate he needs to learn how to express and sort his feeling and confusion and seems like hes trying to do good but cheating was a big NO NO and he needs to understand that is not the way to go!! I understand him but i dont agree with it and it doesnt make it right!! I wouldnt know what to do in your situation but i also wouldnt give him a time limit like u did (until baby is due) bc u want him to truly focus on what he needs to do and truly progress on his own not to meet a limit. Good luck be strong and atleast let him know that youre there for him bc now no matter what u guys are binded together for life bc of ur son
@alwaysbusie i meant that for @pawgio sorry. Cheating is a nogo. Cheating with such reckless reguard as to do it without even using protection w someone that he bought meth off of after meeting her twice would be enough.
I have learned to live my life how I believe I should because you are never going to make everyone happy you just need to make yourself happy and if people don't like that I am with my hubby even after he cheated that's fine it doesn't hurt me so no hard feelings and actually as for the codependents that's a good point and I highly recommend codepend no more by melody beattie its a good book to read
@cetheridge I'm getting checked at my appointment tomorrow, he's going to explain to the doctor why it needs to happen @beawesome good luck to you! @alwaysbusie thank you for being to supportive, I'll try and remember to find that book. I don't care what anyone else thinks as long as I'm happy, I won't spend my life trying to please others.
@pawgio only you know what's right to do for you and your family and know whatever you choose there is plenty of us preglys that will support you no matter what. Look deep into your heart you know what has to be done and how to get there once again good luck to both of you actually all 3 of u.
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@beawesome good luck to you!
@alwaysbusie thank you for being to supportive, I'll try and remember to find that book. I don't care what anyone else thinks as long as I'm happy, I won't spend my life trying to please others.