Butt love ;-)

lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
edited August 2011 in Just for Fun
Ok so me and hubby have a deal, if he gets 'the snip' he can have some butt love (we've tried it b4 but it hurt like hell) anyway he really likes it so I wanna be able to give him what he wants but im scared and also what lube is best? I wanna surprise him with it asap,im due in 2 weeks and sex is still good but not as kinky as it was due to the bump lol sorry if its tmi but where else could I get this advice :-)
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  • letysfirstletysfirst
    I've never tried it for the same reason (hurts like hell) lol but I would suggest n from ppl have said lots n lots of KY!! Lots of it!!!! N u being relaxed lol... maybe il try it some day but today or anytime soon Wont work for me lol :)
  • SamiUKSamiUK
    best way at first (i think) is you on top and slowly ease onto it and maybe have a lil stimulation on your clit, also try fingers or small toys first good luck i guess lol x
  • ImamommysoonImamommysoon
    are you planning on having butt love while your'e pregnant or after? my bf has been begging me for some while I'm pregnant but its not happening with these hemroids!! (sorry wayyyy tmi) I told him maybe after the baby and I am all healed up and they go away. Either way though, get a really good thick lube that doesn't dry out quickly, go slow. have him use a finger first to kinda loosen you up and try not to tense up it will just make it hurt worse. ive heard its supposed to be pleasurable if you take your time.
  • pnsw524pnsw524
    I have a slick stick that I got at an adult party that is made to be good for butt love! Lol my husband and I did it maybe once a month or so before I got pregnant.
    My advice for making it hurt less would be lots of lube and doing it doggie style with your legs spread wide! Have him insert just the head at 1st while playing with your clit to get you good and excited! Then he can slowly put the rest of him in, usually about that time youll need a minute to adjust the feeling of it being in there lol but if he keeps playing woth you and starts off slow and works up to a faster pace you should enjoy it :)
  • lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
    Im plannin on doin it tonight :-p we're kid free till wednesday so wanna make the most of it (im gettin a good seein too tonight ladies) sorry tmi but oh boy I need it. I'm deffo gonna try it just need guidin through it lol, my hubby would just ram me if he could but im not that stupid :-) ive told him he can ram if I can stick my finger up his butt! Lmao
  • beaded_bunnybeaded_bunny
    Pawgio had a thread asking for romantic advise and it quickly turned all butt sex all the time lol. It was titled something like "what would you find sexy if you were a guy" or had some dos and donts
  • breewashington08breewashington08
    @usmcwifemommy101107 u shld b a lota help here lol
  • lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
    Hmm @beaded_bunny I might have to take a look at that :-)

    @breewashington08 yeah ive seen someone else say @usmcwifemommy101107 was a bit of an expert lol... Any advice welcome ;-)
  • MamapalmerMamapalmer
    I was told by my doctor that in the booty isn't good or safe while pregnant..
  • lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
    Awh boooo to your doctor lol, maybe your docs just anal phobic lol @mamapalmer
  • mrutherfordmrutherford
    The slick stik is amazing! Its a wonderful lube regardless!
  • breewashington08breewashington08
    I wish I had some advice to gve u girl... but I'm not to expierenced in this field lol I have heard that numbing lube is good tho so u don't tense up an it helps u relax an enjoy it more
  • lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
    Well hubby knows now so no goin back now ladies :-/
  • Carsons_mommyCarsons_mommy
    I think just about any lube would be fine. Me and my husband just used spit. Definitely make sure he fingers your butt first cause that will help loosen you up and make it hurt way less. As far as positions... I have found that the least painful position is me laying kinda on my side and just raise one leg. It took us several different tries of anal before I ever started to enjoy it. Good luck!
  • newmommie1014newmommie1014
    I work at an adult store in SC and the best advice is use a lot of lube the hill est one to use is something for called JO anal its thicker than most other lubes. Also I think some one said it before but start with a small toy and work your self up. But depends on how big your hubby is!!! But good luck!!!
  • Misty2011Misty2011
    Not experienced with this.

    But, astroglide x is really good lube. It doesn't dry up quickly and its silky.
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  • lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
    @usmcwifemommy101107 thank you, your now my personal anal sex guru :-)

    @everyone i'll update after the deed is done :p
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  • Mylittleman2011Mylittleman2011
    I agree with @usmcwifemommy101107 the orgasm is PHENOMINAL!! Reading how she describe what to do hubby better get home soon cause we got some playing to do :)
  • lyndsay1983lyndsay1983
    @mylittleman2011 haha I know I was reading it thinkin holy shit... Roll on tonight coz im gonna gets me some :-D
  • brodysmammabrodysmamma
    Idk if anyone has said this but... Booty eeze. A little goes a long way it numbs you up just enough it doesn't hurt. Don't put any on him use regular lube on him and lube it up real good. Use a toy on you. It helps relax you. I was not a fan until we got the butt numbing stuff. But I'm serious a little goes a long way.
  • shimattsbabyshimattsbaby
    I've never tried but hubby would love to I'm too scared but from hearing everyone I think I need to give it a second chance but how does he finish inside of you? Or does he pull out?
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  • shimattsbabyshimattsbaby
    @usmcwifemommy101107 how about with a condom?
  • pawgiopawgio
    @usmcwifemommy101107 @samantha LOL I knew I would see you two here :-)
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  • Damiens_MommyDamiens_Mommy
    well, i used to do it with my ex pretty frequently... was actually the only way i got off while with him lol. wasn't difficult with him, but when i got with my current hubby... well, lets just say (tmi) he is as big around as my wrist... so we had to ease our way back into it... um... yeah, like the other women have said use lots and LOTS of lube! it might seem messy, but the more you have, the less it hurts. oh, n go slow. let your body have time to adjust.
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