anyone else felt very insecure since they have been prego

edited February 2011 in Pregnant
Since I've been pregnant I've been very insecure. I've accused my hubby of cheating once or twice n I know he would never. But Idk maybe its the hormones, or I don't feel as pretty Idk.
Hope I'm not the only one with these feelings :(

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  • I feel bad for my hubby but I can't help it. I want to apologize but for some reason I feel I'm in the right? Even though I'm so wrong!!
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  • I feel the same way!! And have been acting the same way...and yet I def feel I'm right. I'm sure its hormones! I feel some of my days are worse than others
  • Awww, you ladies should be proud of your bodies!! This is all a miracle. Even as sick as I've been I feel so comfortable in my body, I love my baby bump. Carrying a baby is a beautiful thing!! And you are all beautiful mommies!!
  • Thanks @myowndisaster23 but I really don't feel beautiful anymore I'm 24 weeks prego have a belly n my breast went from a size b to d I feel huge and don't like the mirror anymore. I guess I believe I'm not pretty so y is he still attracted to Me. I know he looks at other women. Like the other day a Victoria secret commercial came on n he said nice y don't u wear cute things anymore? I wanted to scream!! But instead I just said whatever
  • Don't feel bad, we can sit here and tell you being pregnant is beautiful and everything but the truth is you will feel the same regardless of what anyone will tell you. Would it help you if your husband told you how sexy you were everyday or would it make you uncomfortable? Some women feel comfortable in their skin and some don't regardless of pregnancy. What I would suggest focusing on is expressing how you feel to your husband. I've felt this way many times and when I've sobbed to my husband he is so understanding and to my surprise has said he thinks I look 10x's sexier now than every before. Regardless if that's the truth it makes me feel better. Just know that pregnancy isn't about being a top model,its about your body creating something THOUSANDS of women cant; a child. When you feel down, go for a walk, do some stretching or get your mind off your insecurities. It will also help boost your mood/endorphans which will help your moodiness and sometimes insecurities! :) good luck and try not to be so hard on yourself because at the end of the day that's really the only person you need to take care of and love...for your baby.
  • @dncrcass I did my first pregnancy alone too it sucks I'm sorry hun but Congradulations on the baby even alone its amazing to
  • so true @armywife44 thanks but at this point Idk if he'll even talk to me. I've been so mean.
  • I agree with @armwife44, talk to your partner... my hubby has definitely been a big ego booster!! You're pregnant & a mommy but you are a woman first and small gestures and words can really change your Outlook. I hope you feel better.
  • I talked with him he made me feel much much better (%)
  • I'm the same way I feel ugly and so insecure :(
  • ItsaGirl don't feel bad, I am the same way. I felt like my baby daddy had someone else for the longest time and I accused him a couple times. I also feel insecure, I am 29 weeks pregnant and I have some stretch marks, huge breasts and when I feel down I just think of what I am getting out of this. A baby =] Hope you feel better.
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  • Some people say they feel prettier pregnant but i just feel uglier.. i am extremely insecure about myself..
  • @dncrcass sometimes its better alone I got prego with my first at 17 and father didn't want to step up n well it made me n my son so much closer it just being him n i!!
  • Ah good its not just me! I hate being fat and having horrible skin! I feel bad for my hubby cuz I don't want to go places cuz I hate it when ppl stare! Like they have never seen a prego chick!
  • Im 29 wks and I feel fat even though im all belly and huge tatas. (Used to be a 38c now im 40dd). My husband still thinks im beautiful but I feel ugly with all my stretch marks on my stomach. I love being pregnant don't get me wrong but I just feel like a fatty patty. Especially in uniform. (Im in the air force)
  • I feel the same and I get so jealous when he gets ready n smells so good n goes out he always wants to take me with him but I don't want to go I feel so fat n ugly n I see all these pretty skinny girls:( n before we use to check girls out together bow if he says something bout a girl I get mad at him:( so your not the only one:(
  • Hey air force mom I hate my uniform too I'm army. These uniforms make me look huge n the pants come up to my breasts
  • Lol well I like to wear my ABUs but when I wear my blues I feel like im wearing a damn tent
  • I feel the same I dnt have to worry about cheating but I feel huge n feel that he won't want me after all of this its really bad cuz I felt I was too big to get pregnant n the first place :-(
  • Aww @pop22 I'm so sorry I guess we all just have to agree were sacrificing our bodies for a beautiful baby!!! :X
  • Naw ur not the only one... I haven't been able to be affectionate or sexual wit my hubby... I jus don't feel sexy or attractive n b/c of tht we've been fightin like crazy.... I love him dearly n want our relationship to work... I dnt knw if its hormones or jus irration of being pregnant
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