Is it ok to have a second baby shower

edited February 2011 in Baby showers
My children r all going to b 5 years apart. I didnt have a shower for the first child now 10, but I did for my second child now 5. My baby is due sept 16,debating if its ok to have a second baby shower... I keep hearing mixed opinions? Not sure what to do...

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  • Heck ya if people are wanting to throw you one go for it :)
  • I'm going to. My daughter will b 5 when new baby comes n we have nooooo baby things left. I'm not doing a huge shower, just close friends/family and cake and hord'urvs (did I spell tht right?) Either way its a cellebration for a new life!
  • In my family we have a shower for every baby born cause every baby needs things. Not just one shower. I had 3 kids in 3 years and was given a shower for each of them. I am pregnant with my 4th and even though I'm only 6w5d my sister is already talking about the shower she wants to throw me lol
  • Its diff if you do them yourself I think. My dad n his wife throwing me one my mom already did one for me last week n my mother in law is having one next month. I mean im not gna say no. I need the baby stuff real bad im only one out of friends n family having a girl (: so its no biggie I say go for it!!
  • Absolutely! I'm planning my third and my kids are each 2 years apart. Babies are a fantastic reason to have a party--there isn't much that's more exciting.
  • Its great u have a lot of support @mommysBabygirl not sure whats diff about doing it yourself when support like that is not there? Thanks everyone for the feedback lots of help!
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  • I think it is okay!!! Every baby on the way should be celebrated :) Sometimes people get so caught up in protocol like with weddings and stuff. If anyone on your invite list has a problem they can always just not go. But if I was invited I would bring food and gifts!
  • I had a big baby shower when I had my daughter in 2009. Now I'm having a boy and going to have two showers.
  • This will be my 3rd shower and 4th baby. I agree with all of the posts on here
  • my friend has 3 kids.. her mother threw her one for her first and for her second she didnt think it was right but for her third i threw her one and she got a bunch of amazing things... i say it is totally ok
  • A shower for each baby is the way to go! :)
  • I have had a shower for all three of my babys
  • I have had two baby showers so far for this baby. One in Michigan with my family and friends, one in Illinois with my husbands family and friends, and one in Arizona where we live. I think its fine :)
  • DIffrent baby each pregnancy needs a shower.....
  • Im going to have a sprinkle. I still have some things but need some too. Lool it up
  • Since it's been five years in between this one and the last, I would see no reason you shouldn't be able to throw a baby shower for this one. After all, you will need many new things (for example, some of your older things may have excess wear, etc.), and I am sure there are many family and friends of yours who would love to celebrate this new life with you! :) I would say go for it; I personally see no problem with it!
  • heck yea its ok!! I had two baby showers each from both families...and with this one they said they will throw it again. I'm just very blessed with loving supportive family. :)
  • My son just turned 1 & over the summer I got rid of all his stuff because we were planning on waiting a few years til we had another one but God had other plans for us so I could use all the help I can get so I'm planning on having one. As long as your comfortable with it that's all that matters. If anyone feels that you shouldn't then they can just stay home. You're not forcing anyone to buy you anything or to show up.
  • If you don't need the big things like swing, crib etc, call it a baby sprinkle, not shower. I just threw a surprise one for my SIS in law, and it went wonderful.
  • Thanks everyone... I have nothing left...
  • Yeah its fine in my family they throw baby showers for everyone even if their kids r 1 year apart
  • Yes my mom threw me one& the hubbys sister threw me another one..both for my son. now my sisnlaw is already planning one for my baby gurl due in july....have fun!!!!
  • I was worried about that too, and I jus had shower for my 3rd, and everyone was really great, ppl tht didn't come have been asking wat I still need so sure, go for it! my son is 8, daughter is 3, and I'm expecting a boy so I don't know wat baby boy stuff I even have left from 8 years ago! this one will probly be using some pink blankets and burp cloths though!
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