@laura536 its funny u mention those i actually have a whole bottle still from my pregnancy and i was real good about taking them everyday but since i had him I've been real bad about remembering everyday, i can hardly remember to take these weight loss pills i have everyday lol. i should just throw them in my purse then if i foret in the morning ill take them whn i see them
Lol! Finish off the bottle then, vitamins are good for your hair! Also, check out the side effects of your weight loss pills...they could be contributing to your hair loss and also effecting your mood.
@adriens_mommy FMLA is family medical leave act it's a government thing they give you 12 weeks a year and your employer has to abide by it. There is paperwork you will need to fill out most employers are really cool about it. If you don't have benefits thru work you should be able to qualify for the ones thru assistance. I know I heard something that Obama is requiring something about all Americans must have medical - maybe this means getting assistance will be easier good luck to u and try and call see how much state and charity help u qualify for. I know taking help is hard believe me it's hard but when your working your butt off and still going backwards it's a lot less stressful and helps!!!
@MarinesAngel u had your baby??!? how did i miss that? when? congrats!! and 37 w is good! adrien was 34+5 and as born before the steroid shot had time o take effect, but he's a fighter I'm going to search for your thread in a min to read up
@Mamato2boys what's a medical card? is that medicaid? bcuz i applied for medicade when i was 2 month preg and i was denied! i got foodstamps back then by i didn't get medicaid because of my job it offers insurance but you can't apply till 90 days employment and i never applied because i didnt want more mey taken out of my check. then shortly after that i was pregnant and the next open enrollment is after a year of employment but that still disqualified me. i ended up getting back on my dads insurance because of the obama law that passed. but copays are still expensive, $30 a visit. and because of my high risk pregnancy resulting in extra ultrasounds that are not covered, then my 10 day hospital stay when i had adrien and the c section, i owe that office so much money and they've been one of the harrassers and sending letters every single day. if i went back there theyd probably lock my ass in a closet and keep me there till i worked off my debt. I'm going to try to get $30 together and go though. as for other assistance- i used to get foodstamps but not anymore, i do have wic, thank god, because adriens nutramigen formula is expensive. i get a few groceries. i totally make it work tho i get enough milk and honey bunches of oats to live off of and i like it cuz it helps me keep some weight off. the energy assistance program is one that requires all household member social's, meaning adriens. so still waiting. i really need that one too because not very long ago my power was off for two weeks and i had no way of paying it and the rude bitch i talked to didn't care nothing about a baby living there and my dad finally pair the minimun to turn it back on because my 2 aunts went off on him one day about how he better get down there and turn his grandsons power on lol but I'm gonna get it turned off again f i don't come across some extra money. ill do something tho until i can get energy assistanc. as for housing, I've been checking in on them every two months, in my citty they are shut down right now because there is no funding theyre not even accepting applications and the recording says "until further notice". so I'm keepin an eye on that. I've always wanted to go to beauty school but now that i have adrien i have to think about what has the best future, and working in the medical field has more security than in cosmetology. people arnt splurging as much on expensive hair appointments. and i don't want to work in the corner salon by the small. i wanted to work on movie sets and have my name on all the celebritys heads. but that takes time and investment, 2 things i do not have. the economy does not affect the medical field. that's why I'm now doing something i never wanted to be. but it pays. and i don't have the time or energy to do hair under the table. after a long shift in hot sweaty scrubs i just want to go to bed. and his social security card- the social security administration said according to the computer it should've been sent out may 20. but they lost it. so i have to re-apply. i was going to do it that day too but he said adrien needs 2 forms of id. and a birth certificate doesn't count. wtf? but shot records and health insurance card works. i have his shot records. but his dad has the insurance card and wont give it to me. its a viscious circle that i cannot get out of. everytime i turn a corner i hit another road block.this is where all the stress comes from.
@laura536 i know i feel like such dumbass but thats why i'm gonna start carrying them in my purse. and the diet pills are actually the all natural ones that bke913 started a thread about. it actually says on the box No side effects lol. i was losing hair since before i started them too.
@Mylittleman2011 i agree. i have way to much price ill be the last person to ask friends or family for help. thats why my power was shut off for two weeks, i didn't tell anybody except my Aunt, and when my dad found out he ended up turning it back on. but, i would gladly accept any assistance i can get right now. its not worth the stress
@novmthumper11 your a swertheart. shiit i wish i lived in florida i hate nevada, mountains, snow, and all the stinky nevadans lol.
@Mnbaby3 thank u hun. I'm going to find someone whos good with adrien.
wow hun it does semm like a never ending circle of a dog chasing its tail lol But wow i hope it all falls into place for you soon! Is it possible for you to have a room mate or move back in with the parents or a close family member? I mean i dont know how your family situation is but maybe it can help save $ ? just saying.....
Where do you live btw? and *>HUGS<* I wish u lived by me i'd be happy to babysit your baby im a stay at home mommy with too much time in my hands lol
OK... so her boyfriend called me from work this morning about unrelated business. i asked him if they ended up going to the balloon races this morning. he said they didn't, that they're going tomorrow.
so i called her to ask her how the balloon races were. she said " Oh it was cool! i still can't believe how they get those huge balloon up there(hot air balloons)."i said Oh I'm glad. so what time did u get there? 4am when u get home? around 7 so Charlie could go to work. i said "sounds fun. i had to call into work today cuz i had nowhere to take adrien, and I'm in a lot of trouble over it" she didn't say much. so i chatted a few more minutes, said id talk to her later. i then txtd her boyfriend, asking " so u guys did not go to the races?" i wanted to make sure i had the right truth before i got upset. nope they did not go today, they are going tomorrow. i told him she just lied straight at me and i told him the convo. I'm not gonna say anything to her and neither is he. i wanna see how far she takes this lie. ill ask her if shes watching adrien tomorrow and i wonder what excuse she will give. and btw i don't have a problem with her man at all. i actually like him a lot more than any other guy shes dated. i just don't like the way she turned all stupid over the relationship. she trips on him way too much and i keep telling her pick her battles cuz he ain't gonna stay around for that. she always starting stupid petty fights wit him and she's way too clingy. then there's the whole issue with her neglecting everything else. i feel kinda bad for him but he's a grown man he will leave when he's ready. but were real tight and he keeps it real with me and he takes amazing care of my son in fact i feel more comfortable when i leave adrien with charlie then with her for many reasons. but anyway... I'm gonna see where this lie goes and what else she lies to me about.
@Mamato2boys I'm not moving in with my dad. I'm stressed enough as it is. as for the room mate thing... i will not bring a stranger into my sons home. if i let anyone live with m its family. and both times i tried that it ended very badly. long story short (if u want to hear the whole story ill tell it) but basically my mom sent into my account completley emptied it, took out 2 loans on that account which bounced because she emptied it, her and her husband completley robbed my place of EVERYTHING from the furniture to the hangers to the food in my pantry. i swear to g i came home and it looked as if the occupants moved out. then my sister came and lives with me and that only lasted a month and now my front door is very broken and it doesn't close all the way. if someone else wants to break in all it takes is one good kick and that door is coming down.
so my home is now completely closed off to anyone moving in. hell no. I'm done with these assholes.
@MarinesAngel ohh lol ok. well i hope u get a break soon and this baby comes out healthy look at the bright side, he can't stay in forever! and its almost over
Wow hun it sounds like you are going thru a tough time! I wish I could help you out I'd watch your little one in a heart beat but I'm all the way in MIA. I can tell you one thing take some time to find God cause when everyone does you wrong he's always the only one left. Run to him for refuge he will be their. The more you do the better you will feel. When I'm at wits end and bill collectors calling me and harassing me threatning me I promise you God always comes thru and randomly I will receive money. Like its been real tight financially and yesterday the specialist I had to see tells me oh we are issuing a 150 refund check to you from 2009 ur ins covered! He never fails! I will be praying real hard for you!
Theres free councillors you can see for your ppd. If you want when you feel it coming on email me or you can text me. A lot of people come to me so they can vent and get advice
Awe all of this would leave me broken. I'm so proud of you for having the strength for you and your son. A round of applause to a wonderful mommy!! I'm so sorry you're under all this stress, I hope things look up quickly. I wish I lived close just to help. Oh and your bestfriend is lucky she is still alive. I would've ripped her head off.
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@Mamato2boys what's a medical card? is that medicaid? bcuz i applied for medicade when i was 2 month preg and i was denied! i got foodstamps back then by i didn't get medicaid because of my job it offers insurance but you can't apply till 90 days employment and i never applied because i didnt want more mey taken out of my check. then shortly after that i was pregnant and the next open enrollment is after a year of employment but that still disqualified me. i ended up getting back on my dads insurance because of the obama law that passed. but copays are still expensive, $30 a visit. and because of my high risk pregnancy resulting in extra ultrasounds that are not covered, then my 10 day hospital stay when i had adrien and the c section, i owe that office so much money and they've been one of the harrassers and sending letters every single day. if i went back there theyd probably lock my ass in a closet and keep me there till i worked off my debt. I'm going to try to get $30 together and go though.
as for other assistance- i used to get foodstamps but not anymore, i do have wic, thank god, because adriens nutramigen formula is expensive. i get a few groceries. i totally make it work tho i get enough milk and honey bunches of oats to live off of and i like it cuz it helps me keep some weight off. the energy assistance program is one that requires all household member social's, meaning adriens. so still waiting. i really need that one too because not very long ago my power was off for two weeks and i had no way of paying it and the rude bitch i talked to didn't care nothing about a baby living there and my dad finally pair the minimun to turn it back on because my 2 aunts went off on him one day about how he better get down there and turn his grandsons power on lol but I'm gonna get it turned off again f i don't come across some extra money. ill do something tho until i can get energy assistanc. as for housing, I've been checking in on them every two months, in my citty they are shut down right now because there is no funding theyre not even accepting applications and the recording says "until further notice". so I'm keepin an eye on that.
I've always wanted to go to beauty school but now that i have adrien i have to think about what has the best future, and working in the medical field has more security than in cosmetology. people arnt splurging as much on expensive hair appointments. and i don't want to work in the corner salon by the small. i wanted to work on movie sets and have my name on all the celebritys heads. but that takes time and investment, 2 things i do not have. the economy does not affect the medical field. that's why I'm now doing something i never wanted to be. but it pays. and i don't have the time or energy to do hair under the table. after a long shift in hot sweaty scrubs i just want to go to bed.
and his social security card- the social security administration said according to the computer it should've been sent out may 20. but they lost it. so i have to re-apply. i was going to do it that day too but he said adrien needs 2 forms of id. and a birth certificate doesn't count. wtf? but shot records and health insurance card works. i have his shot records. but his dad has the insurance card and wont give it to me. its a viscious circle that i cannot get out of. everytime i turn a corner i hit another road block.this is where all the stress comes from.
@novmthumper11 your a swertheart. shiit i wish i lived in florida i hate nevada, mountains, snow, and all the stinky nevadans lol.
@Mnbaby3 thank u hun. I'm going to find someone whos good with adrien.
Where do you live btw? and *>HUGS<* I wish u lived by me i'd be happy to babysit your baby
so i called her to ask her how the balloon races were. she said " Oh it was cool! i still can't believe how they get those huge balloon up there(hot air balloons)."i said Oh I'm glad. so what time did u get there? 4am
when u get home? around 7 so Charlie could go to work.
i said "sounds fun. i had to call into work today cuz i had nowhere to take adrien, and I'm in a lot of trouble over it" she didn't say much.
so i chatted a few more minutes, said id talk to her later.
i then txtd her boyfriend, asking " so u guys did not go to the races?" i wanted to make sure i had the right truth before i got upset.
nope they did not go today, they are going tomorrow.
i told him she just lied straight at me and i told him the convo. I'm not gonna say anything to her and neither is he.
i wanna see how far she takes this lie. ill ask her if shes watching adrien tomorrow and i wonder what excuse she will give.
and btw i don't have a problem with her man at all. i actually like him a lot more than any other guy shes dated. i just don't like the way she turned all stupid over the relationship. she trips on him way too much and i keep telling her pick her battles cuz he ain't gonna stay around for that. she always starting stupid petty fights wit him and she's way too clingy. then there's the whole issue with her neglecting everything else.
i feel kinda bad for him but he's a grown man he will leave when he's ready. but were real tight and he keeps it real with me and he takes amazing care of my son in fact i feel more comfortable when i leave adrien with charlie then with her for many reasons.
but anyway... I'm gonna see where this lie goes and what else she lies to me about.
as for the room mate thing...
i will not bring a stranger into my sons home. if i let anyone live with m its family. and both times i tried that it ended very badly. long story short (if u want to hear the whole story ill tell it) but basically my mom sent into my account completley emptied it, took out 2 loans on that account which bounced because she emptied it, her and her husband completley robbed my place of EVERYTHING from the furniture to the hangers to the food in my pantry. i swear to g i came home and it looked as if the occupants moved out.
then my sister came and lives with me and that only lasted a month and now my front door is very broken and it doesn't close all the way. if someone else wants to break in all it takes is one good kick and that door is coming down.
so my home is now completely closed off to anyone moving in. hell no. I'm done with these assholes.
and btw I'm in reno nv