Largish age difference between you and baby daddy?

tjscrdtjscrd
edited March 2011 in Pregnancy and fathers
Are you pregnant by an older man?
Or are you older than your baby daddy?
Tell me all about it. How do you feel about it? How does your family feel?
Do you feel it will slightly complicate parenting being from different times or not at all?
Just curious. :)
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  • camommycamommy
    My husband and I are only 7 months apart in age.
  • coolbabybeanscoolbabybeans
    My hubby is 6 yrs older than I am and I think it helps a little bit with maturity. My parents are 14 yrs apart so they don't really care. I don't think our parenting is different he just remembers a bunch of stuff he did as a kid compared to stuff I did
  • Cesp717Cesp717
    My fiance n I are 13.yrs apartn he is older.. This will b his 5th kid n my 3rd
  • oc86oc86
    He is almost 4 yrs younger. I can already tell the difference cuz this pregnancy was unplanned & unexpected. We were already broken up when we found out I was pregnant. He said he'll be here for the baby but when it comes to the pregnancy he could care less. He's still freakin out about it but I hope he mans up soon!
  • MSCMSC
    My husband is six months older than me.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    My bf is 6 years older than me...but I know he'll be a great parent bc he already has 2 kids
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  • finallyamommafinallyamomma
    My boyfriend is 9 years older than I am, and we actually have a really crazy story when it comes to us finally getting together. He is 33 I'm 24 and he's my family's insurance agent, which is how I originally met him. My family loves him! He has two boys already 12 and 3 and I think that a lot of the time he is to easy on the boys so I think that I will be the strict parent with our baby.
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    My husband is 39 and I'm 19. I'm really mature for my age and he still acts like a kid (his favorite TV show is Spongebob Squarepants) so we meet somewhere in the middle. Honestly, he doesn't even look 39. If you ignore the crow's feet and smile wrinkles, he could pass for 25 (he's got a rockin' body for a 39 year old).
    I've always been into older guys, but the biggest age difference I had before him was 7 years. My family was pretty shocked by the whole thing and pretty freaked out by the age difference, but when they saw us together, they accepted him.
    We knew we were in love with each other immediately and we quickly moved in together and got married (to my family's dismay; this was before they met him). Two months of wedded bliss and I got pregnant. My family is happy that we're having this baby. A lot of them thought that since he's older, he couldn't have kids. He just said, "Yeah, I still got it" and winked. This is my first and his fourth. He's a great dad and his kids adore him, so I'm happy that he's my baby's daddy :)
  • mom60511mom60511
    I am 8 years older than my fiance. He is 31 and I am 39. This will be our 3rd child together and my 4th. Neither of our families care about our age.
  • mz_sandersmz_sanders
    Wow... me and my bf is only 4 years apart. Im 21 hes 25 and we r on r third kid and my parents dont care about the age difference and neither does his dad.
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  • hurstk28hurstk28
    My husband is 41 and i am 28.
  • expectingmy2ndexpectingmy2nd
    My fiance is 37 and I'm 39.
  • rebeltwinsrebeltwins
    I am 27 and my huz is 42! He has 2 biological kids and adopted one. These twins make #4 and #5 for him which makes it my #1 and #2! We have been happily together for 4 years now! I like that he already knows how to be an awesome Dad! Our story is really funny since he was my Boss a few years ago...LOL!
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    Im 23 and my husband is 29 we have been together for almost six years and married for almost four..... I wouldn't have it any other way and my family thinks the world of him.
  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    Im twenty one and he's twenty eight his second my first been together three years may 19th he was raised very old school so its gunna be interesting parenting together
  • ScarlettsMamaScarlettsMama
    My husband is 41 and im 26 so were 15 yrs apart and i wldnt have it any other way
  • tjscrdtjscrd
    @VictoriaB, I'm 19 as well. :) My boyfriend is 32. We also meet in the middle, and he doesn't look his age. :p People refer to him as 'Young man' all the time. Or call us another 'Young couple.' Haha. It's weird because I was NEVER into much older man, when I turned 18, 23 was pushing it. My boyfriend was always into older women, ever since he was 18 he's always been with 30-40 year olds. But we're incredibly similar and we work somehow irregardless of our previous preferences. This will be both our first. He's wanted to be a father so badly for many years. But he thought for sure he couldn't have kids. So we were extremely surprised when I got pregnant. He's going to be awesome at daddy life. (:
  • LucasAndLolasMommyLucasAndLolasMommy
    Me & my babydaddy are about 8 years apart - I'm 19 and he is 27. Our birthdays is a day apart I'm March 31 and he is March 30. My family loves him they knew him before I did and was really happy to find out we were together! We would of been together longer buh he couldn't be w/ me when I was 17 buh he wanted to. Our relationship is great we Just moved into our apartment - this is my second child. And his first we are really excited :D
  • kayleigh27kayleigh27
    My husband is 4 yrs older than me. My family and his are fine with it. We joke that when I was born he was in school and when I was in college I was only a freshmen in high school. Lol
  • sunshine25sunshine25
    My fiance is 39 and I am 25. Whole family is fine except my mom. But it doesn't matter to me as he is by far the best thing that has happened to me. He is literaly the kind of man who waits and holds the door for a whole line of people...or stops to help someone lift something into their car at the grocery store. He is my sunshine. This will be the first for both of us...although he does have step children from a previous marriage.I couldn't be happier at this point. The only thing I don't like about our age differance is sometimes I'm afraid that the day will come when he leaves me....not of free will but...I don't like to think of that.
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    @mama2bn2011
    Its my first and his fourth, like yours :)
    @kitshay
    Are we with the same guy? Lol, my hubby's last girlfriend was 36. When he was 18, he was with a woman who was 28. I'm glad my hubby's got experience with kids since this is my first.

    So did I win for biggest age difference? Lol!
  • briffyg89briffyg89
    I am older than my baby daddy and I hate it cuz he young and can't hold up fa his responsibility. I'm 21 and he 19 which not dat bad but I wish he was older
    =((
  • jodi102011jodi102011
    My husband is 36 and I am 33, this is my first and his 2nd. He is a great dad. He does day care so he knows what he is doing. I am nervous for myself though:)
  • LILMzPregoTinkerbUttLILMzPregoTinkerbUtt
    21 and he's 26 my first his second be together 1 year worried he's gone treat my baby differnt then his first he son loves me but he acted weird @ first me around christian (son) now he all wants be around him his dad works a lot and his bm mad he acts for me but she dnt know I'm prego and we don't get along drama and stress I don't need when it come to them my bd is secertive
  • youngmamiyoungmami
    I am 18 and my fiancée is 27 . It was an issue at first but once my family got to know him they fell in love just Away much as I was. I always dated older. And when I told my mom I was pregnant she was angry than I showed her the sonogram and she melted. He is part of the family
  • MsKrystalMsKrystal
    My baby daddy is a year younger than me, but he acts like a child. Ugh... don't wanna get started on that.
  • littlemisscvllittlemisscvl
    Am 25 and bf 41 ... this will be both are 1st ... he's goin be a great dad ...he looks about same age as me an has gt amazing body all my mates are jealous :) so glad we found each other ... he is my life
  • RobynnRawksRobynnRawks
    6 years between me and the bf, I'm 19 his 25 been together just over 3 months. :D love at first sight.
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