@brendalou@juliansmommy those are her opinions. If she wanted to be educated on this subject, she would be. Racism is only ignorance. Don't read too much into it. Yes, it is uncalled for, and yes it is offensive. But you can't educate someone who is unwilling. And why waste your energy on someone that doesn't matter to you? She is a stranger on the internet.
@Rckprincess2 after a little reflection I realize I need to appologize to you for contributing to poo pooing your thread. I'm genuinely sorry, won't happen again from this lady. Something must've struck a sensitive nerve in me, not that it should be an excuse.
I have two boys, and am going to have my third boy real soon.. no more kids for me.. lol.. unless i do foster care someday or inherit one from my huge family.. but absolutly no more babys will be comeing out of this body.. lol.. i love my babys and they are worth all the things that come with pregnancy.. i also believe that i will have other kids someday.. just not birth them.. if that makes sence..
It's okie @brendalou I was hoping that it would die down without to much craziness happening. I don't want this thread shut down over bleh stuff. But I thank you for not contributing to it anymore
I have 2 a boy and girl.. my son is from previous relationship daughter from my now husband. My son and hubby want a boy. Hubby wants 4 kids so 3 of his own. I don't want anymore lol
@melodya I'm an immigrant with 2 kids I get Wic my kids have Medicaid I get 150 a month food stamps FOR MY SON. I provided all proper documentation for this. My husband works very hard he's. A citizen pays taxes himself he is putting himself through college so he'll make more money for our kids and so I can apply for residency then get a job to help support our family and the 2 more kids we want. We only have 1 vehicle. I'll go without before my kids do. The assistance I get I use properly. So don't assume all illegals are alike. Illegals aren't the only race receiving assistance
@rckprincess2 I'm sorry too! It just irks me that people spit on illegals. Most of us didn't ask to be brought here but the US is all I know and I love it! I ain't going back!! Lol
I have 5 girls 1boy I feel happy to b bless w beautiful children I am independent ,financially stable & most important HAPPY ;-) . More power to my ladies that want a big family !! Don't let no 1 put u down they don't pay ur damn bills !! ..Love all my Happy positive PREGLYS.....<3
@lily_glz there is no shame in having to accept gov help for your babies. Your hubby works and pays taxes so you guys pay into the system and should be able to use it!
I'm a citizen and get wic, medi-cal, and would love food stamps but don't qualify. Hubby works 12-18 hr days 5days a week and we don't live outside our means. But we still struggle, those are the times we live in but my kids don't go without and they are happy and very much loved! If I have a third they will be loved and cared for as well, no matter what it takes.
Another good post! I have 3 girls. I would love to have one more (we r ttc) and ive always wanted to adopt from Haiti... Maybe 2 or 3 siblings. Then i would also like to do foster care!! we shall see what God has planned.
@lily_glz no worries, I hate when people talk crap about accepting assistance like all who do are sitting on their butts all day. Hasn't anyone noticed that our economy is crap?? Lol.
I have two- a 2 year old boy & 7 1/2 week old daughter, I want 2 more hubby on the other hand wants a big family so 5 or more! If it was up to him I'd already be prego again! lol
I want 2 for starters BUT if im very settled financially then I would like to have 4! I was an only child til I was 16 & I found it very boring! Plus my mom never really was close with other fam members so it was just us. Not even really any cousins so it was very boring. So I want a big family.
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I'm a citizen and get wic, medi-cal, and would love food stamps but don't qualify. Hubby works 12-18 hr days 5days a week and we don't live outside our means. But we still struggle, those are the times we live in but my kids don't go without and they are happy and very much loved! If I have a third they will be loved and cared for as well, no matter what it takes.