I want to go into labor :/

Kimberly4411Kimberly4411
edited October 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
I'm so disappointed in my body, it isn't progressing on its own, i'm 38+4 and not even soft, much less dialated. My doc is leaving for vacation around my due date and because i'm not dialated or soft he wont induce :/ I feel as though i'm letting down my husband, he's so anxious to meet his little girl... When is the next full moon? The 12? If I dont have her then or by then I may die... I'm not very patient and the past month has gone incridebly slow and i'm tired of people asking why haven't I had her and that it won't be much longer.. Ugh....

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  • RoxyRoxy
    U believe n the full moon my man does but I dont lol
  • Mimii36Mimii36
    You're not even at your due date yet!! Why are ppl asking why u haven't had her?? Do ppl not know pregnancy is 40 weeks?!
  • Kimberly4411Kimberly4411
    @roxy I believe in anything that may work lol @mimii36 I have no idea, it's getting old though
  • ellieb1989ellieb1989
    I have same problem, everyone thought I.would be early cuz I was big. now they r like well wats going on! I still have 2 weeks till dd date!
  • librababiilibrababii
    Relax! I was feeling the same cuz I was 39wks & hadn't dilated yet...until ONE DAY B4 my DD!!! Last Thursday I went to my weekly checkup & I wasnt dilated at all...I was super frustrated...then Friday morning (the next day) I woke up at 10am & guess what happened at 10:15am? My water breaks!!! I literally freaked out cuz I wasn't expecting that...especially since I had gone to the doctor the day b4...so I got to the hospital around 12pm & I was already at 3cm dilated!!!! It went from 3 to 4 to 5 to 7 in about 4 hours! Then at 9pm I was at 10cm!!! Sooooooo my whole thing here is, just to chill cuz you honestly have no idea what the next minute will bring you...PLUS you still technically have a few weeks left! Good luck :)
  • garagebandfangaragebandfan
    If you are stressed and tense its harder for your body to relax enough.
  • jenoahjenoah
    Yeah it is annoying when people.keep asking you I got so annoyed I basically shut off the whole world..
  • cheryl74cheryl74
    im 40+2 and still here, just remember that pregnancy can last 42 weeks and the baby will come when its ready, ive given up thinking of ways to self induce and am now just waiting for nature to take its course. i know my baby is comfy and will come when i least expect it. relax :)
  • Kimberly4411Kimberly4411
    @librababii there is hope for me yet!! :)
    @garagebandfan , you're probably right, the day I can stop thinking about it will be the day she comes
    @cheryl74 o man, i'd give up if I was that far along to lol jk thanks for the advice
  • Emmalee7Emmalee7
    Lol yeah relax, I'm 40+1 and only 1 cm. You still have plenty of time.
  • garagebandfangaragebandfan
    Take a warm bath, or a hot shower... it should help relax you... plus warm water on the chest has been said to release oxytocin
  • Mimii36Mimii36
    Just relax. The baby will come when its ready!
  • julesjules
    I'm sorry I know your are super exited and just want the baby here so out sucks all of us telling you to relax but just think the baby is getting a little stronger before she can be ready to come out and at the end of the day since your doc won't induce you then too don't really have a choice but to wait for the baby to do her thing and I will say some prayers for you and hope the time goes by little faster
  • FiirstTiimeMommy2bFiirstTiimeMommy2b
    :) I gave up thinking and worrying about when she will come And now I'm enjoying myself while I can enjoying my hunny and catching up on things :) I'm 39+2 and I'm done trying to induce Lol she will come when she does and that's natures decision too :) I hope you enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and just in case labor dust: )
  • nmartinez79nmartinez79
    Ya I live in CA and my mom lives in FL. She thinks I have control of when the baby comes. My Dr wont induce until I'm past my DD and she wants me to tell her a date on when to come out! Its so frustrating! What I've learned, this being my 4th baby, they come when they r good and ready. I had my membranes stripped with my 3rd and I went into labor the next day. Maybe your Dr will do that for u;)
  • lae3lae3
    you wont die i promise.. you will be ok and your baby will come.. try to stay calm..
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