Date Of conception??

laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
So I'm due apr. 19 I slept with my ex one time on july 4th from that day on I've been with my current boyfriend when I do the conception calculators they say my date of conception is july 20-27 which would obviously mean this baby is my boyfriends.is this accurate or should I be worried?
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  • MartinMartin
    @laila_jaidasmom - I think that chances are very high that your boyfriend is the father. the calculator that I tried suggests the period of July 23rd to July 31st as possible dates of conception.
  • ShevybadShevybad
    @laila_jaidasmom So your about 32 weeks prego and if you were prego by your ex you would be 36 weeks and due around Mar,27...So im leanig towards ur current bf good luck
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    But this is what worries me,on aug. 23 I had my first ultrasound which said I was 5wks and 6 days if you look at a calculator and count back 6wks it puts me at july 12 idk what that means though?
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    *calendar
  • ashesashes
    edited February 2011
    When was your last period before you got pregnant?
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    My periods have been irregular all my life,I can get a period once every 3 months and it might last 3 days there always random and honestly I couldn even tell you when the last time I had one
  • 1_Bubbly_Mommy1_Bubbly_Mommy
    Ohkay so how far along does your doc say you are?
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    Ill be 33wks tomorrow my due date is apr.19
  • ashesashes
    I've read your first ultrasound is the closest one. Even so, it was july 12th, so you are still in the clear with your bf. From what I looks like your bf is the father.

    If you still have doubts, and think you always will, the best thing to do is come clean. Tell him everything from start to finish. If he loves you he will understand
  • 1_Bubbly_Mommy1_Bubbly_Mommy
    And also you are already 2wks pregnant before for implantation so at your ultra sound you were really 3wksvand 6days so 3wks and 6days before that day is when you got pregnant which would be...
  • 1_Bubbly_Mommy1_Bubbly_Mommy
    July 27th thru the 31st.
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    So jus to be sure do you think I should ask my doc. When my date of conception was? Do you think he might have a more accurate date?
  • ShevybadShevybad
    yes just to be sure but my moneys on the current bf
  • 1_Bubbly_Mommy1_Bubbly_Mommy
    edited February 2011
    Yes but if you look on websites they tell you that they add 2wks to the pregnancy like i'm 8wks 4days with the 2wks so without the 2wks i'm 6wks4days it says why they add the 2wks on the pregnancy i'm not exactly sure but when i go to the doc he says i'm 8wks4days lol i know it's confusing. But to be on the safe side ask your doc but i'm sure it was btwn 27th-31st so i think it's your current bf.
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    Omg I hope your money's right lmao I've spoken to my ex about it who also has a g.f but he was okay with it he said either way at least I know my daughter will be takin care of at least its not my boyfriend or some random guy I jus would look like a complete idiot and I'm not to good at looking like that lol I jus gotta pray about it and I guess we'll find out in 6wks or less : /
  • mommyfor3mommyfor3
    @laila_jaidasmom I was due April 14 with my daughter and concieved her july 7 if that helps at all
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    @mommyfor3 see that makes me think. There's a bigger chance she could be my exs that's jus too close for comfort
  • mommyfor3mommyfor3
    I would say DNA test to make sure
  • jerricabjerricab
    That's the situation I'm in. I slept with an ex on Christmas but we used a condom. Then 2 days later I slept with my current bf. We don't ever use a condom so I assumed it was his. But when I went to the doctors she said my conception date was probably Christmas
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    Well using a condom is probably helping your chances but when was the last time you slept with you bf before your ex?
  • jerricabjerricab
    I'm not sure. Maybe a week or 2 before that. Before we actually got together we would just hookup.
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    I really wish I could give you some type of assurance but I really don't know being that it was 2days apart and you used protection but she said it was arnd christmas really jus throws me off. I wanna say its your bf but mainly only because y'all used protection that's not really a definate answer though so id say you have to jus wait and see and try not to let it drive you crazy in the mean time
  • jerricabjerricab
    Well I'm leaning towards it being my bfs. Cuz I started cramping the day after we had sex and cuz I did use protection with my ex. Ill just keep my fingers and pray I'm right. In your situation I'm thinking its your current bfs.
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    I'm doin the same here mama fingers crossed and much needed prayers I hope everything works out good luck
  • BoopynbeebopBoopynbeebop
    Well I feel really relieved I'm not the only one :) I slept w my ex 16 days after my current bf at the time...I really am stress out...my cycles are usually 38 days long and my dr said I concieved between oct 6 and 10...well we slept together on the 13 and my current bf at the time was the 27 of sept...I keep going back and forth I know who I hope got my pregnant but its al up to God I keep praying and asking God to show me and i ve been dreamin about my ex being the father who I slept w on the 13th...ladies what do u think ..@rockinmama has the same dd as me and said the only day she had sex was the 15ht of october...pray ladies I believe other than a dna test God s the only one who can answer that..and let me know if u do dream anything in the meantime!
  • BoopynbeebopBoopynbeebop
    It was @rockinmomma not rockinmama oops!
  • laila_jaidasmomlaila_jaidasmom
    Girl who you telln? I'm stressn 2 hard everyone and everything keeps sayin my date of conception is the 20-27 but I took a at home test for the first time on aug. 6 can "clear blue" really know I was preg. Not even 2wks since conception?? I don't think so idk I'm all confused!!
  • BoopynbeebopBoopynbeebop
    Aww h ang in there I've been praying and believing in God for the answer! I thinkh anything is possible hence mary and joseph ...jesus! If God wants something 2 happen it will...ask him to give u a clear cut sign ... but u have 2 take two weeks off the ultrsound bc they give u gestational age not true age....but even then they can range 5 days or so in either direction...dna test and/or pray!! Let me know girl if u need a friend inbox me!
  • BoopynbeebopBoopynbeebop
    Its most likely your bf...plzz let us know what happens! I still have 18 weeks till I see his face! Hope then I can tell!
  • KindellKindell
    Im due august 1st when is my date of con??? Wondering
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