Need some advice.

a_wagnera_wagner
edited October 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
It's not really a vent but couldn't find another category that fits. But everytime my boyfriend wants to have sex I'm not in the mood. It's like when we can have sex I don't want to and when I want to we can't. But he's thinking I just don't want to have sex with him but that's not the case. Idk what I can do but I thought maybe you ladies would have some advice for me. Thanks :)

Comments

  • misselfaemisselfae
    Complete opposite in my case lol. I canr get my oh interested at all he worried he will start labour, which is kinda the point. Hope it gets better for you
  • a_wagnera_wagner
    @misselfae thanks. Well I'm not even prego lol I'm trying tho
  • vtmamajujuvtmamajuju
    @misselfae Im in the same boat as you
  • TrisharoseTrisharose
    Just a suggestion, but if you find that your not in the mood when he is.... Just go for it. You may find yourself turned on after some kissing and what not. Plus your trying to get preggo so try to think about that. Cant without sex. Maybe after a few times of this you will be in the mood same time he is. Goodluck
  • 314babymama1120314babymama1120
    I was gonna say exactly what trisharose said. My hubby and I are rarely on the same sexy schedule but I know what gets him in the mood and he knows what gets me in the mood!
  • a_wagnera_wagner
    Thanks ladies @ 314babymama1120 @trisharose
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    I agree. There's lots of times Im not in the mood but after some making out or teasing I sure am. Also I find I'm most in the mood in the afternoon so sometimes I crash his lunch hour for sex or the weekends I blow off errands Haha
    But stress can affect your sex drive so also take a look into that. For me, if I do physical activity, I'm less stressed and way mire likely to want to play!
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