Also people who say there kids are happy now, well when your kids are older they'll either hate you for it or they'll smoke weed to. Ive seen examples of both and thats how it happens EVERY single time
Medical marijuana and recreational marijuana are on 2 different playing fields. The joy of getting high for fun isn't worth the risk of losing or accidentally hurting your baby. If u have cancer fine get a sitter and light up if not just stop and be a mom.
So I was not going to post but I see a lot of crazy talk you said you felt like crap because you think hour a bad mom weed is not to help deal with problems sure there are medical things that its said can help don't know you medical issues but if your going to the park and sleeping I don't feel your being responsible not a bad parent the days of being able to time when you please are over in my opinion you got to be clear headed to make choices for you child so that she has the best possible start in life. Only you know if you can do it but its a choice your going to have to make. No one on here knows your life or what you've been through what your able to do. So take every post with salt and do whats right for your daughter.
There are safe medications that a doctor can give u and still be able to take care of her. I dealt with an addiction early in my teen years and i have dealt with depression. I now have a disabled huband 5 stepkids in my custody and my inlaws live with us on top of me being preggo and having a very stressful job. Life sux sometimes but there are better ways to deal than pot.
A biggg hug to mamikailee for thinkn sooo mature!! @esperanzA... think about the consequences that it faces.... smoking in public(parks) is not a good idea... You can get reported to CPS girl... Think about it!! Baby needs YOU and ONLY YOU!! She still inhales some from your penetrated clothes... you cant smell it, baby can... Think my friend...think...
Thats your life your not my daughter my daughters life is not being ruined I jump at her every needs high/or not high I dont act dumb I just feel good I use it to not feel my c section cut but because weed ruined your dad dosent give you a right to judge i got pregnant at 15 I had my daughter at 16 I was 4 months on my birthday an I can tell you im the best damn mom ever yea I smoke so do other people my parents smoked an sold weed my mom has a great job an my dads self employed I dont see why if you have money for it then cool I get it when possible an my daughters perfectly fine so there I graduated early an now take care of my daughter I dont see why smoking a blunt once in a while is a crime @mamikailee
Why write on here about it then people are trying to help you and give you advice,you want to do it do it,but don't expect there to be no consequences.kids come first.
FYI I posted this the first time I started smoking I actually dont smoke around her I have some one watch her an you dont know my daughters future she could hate me a blahhh blahh but then again she might be happy an not smoke if your not a physcic an cant see the future then you cant tell me nun @mamikailee
other people have c sections but don't turn to weed.what's the big deal,what do you actualy get out of wasting your money on shit that messes with your head.
@Esperanzas mommy. You do an illegal drug. You have other options you cant jump to every need when your high. When you cant admit what your doing is wrong you have a problem. Im only gonna be 15 when i give birth and i dont plan to touch anything illegal in my life. I think thats a good goal but like people said recreational use and medical use are different but there are smarter choices out there. Your not even old enough to buy cigarettes legally your to young to start ruining your body and if you stop smoking now your daughter wont face the stresses of illegal drugs when shes older how i did at such a young age
Thats the point how the hell are people gonna say I dont put her 1st I posted this because I had her with me one time now I have my dad watch her but shes asleep I sober up then I get her from my dad
@esperanzasmommy sweetie you gotta relax...you know you are a good mom and we here know you have the best intentions. Everybody has different ways of expressing their opinions and despite how rude they come off they do havr some truth and advice.
I think you should probally choose another outlet to relieve stress, but I dont think that makes you any worse of a mom than a woman who doesn't make sure her child is eating healthy. Either way each instance is causing or can cause a baby health or emotional problems.
@betty im sorry but there is not a single way a baby can inhale smoke and get high from clothes. I understand that marijuana is not as accepted in most states that it is in my state but those stories have all proven false.
Its OK when I was 16 I had some similar moments with my baby and felt horrible! But I realized that certain situations were no longer acceptable for me as a mother now. Its a learning process sounds like your doing fine!
I'm pretty sure the doc gave u something for ur c section pain. I pray to god you can look back in 10 years and still say you are the best mom ever. The road your going down does not look good. Are you going to live off your parents forever cuz with the frequency you smoke weed the chances of u getting a job to take care of your daughter are slim. I hope you can take the advice given to you and apply it to your life. I'm praying for u and ur baby girl.
Wow I get high a couple times an im loseing my kid lol get fired up thats why I still have my kid I haven't smoked it's not like im gonna keep doing it I just dont think its a bad thing to smoke
@sara102011 have u heard of 3rd hand smoke? It's what is left over on your clothes, hair, skin ect. And its still not good for you or people around u especially babies.
I'm 16 and pregnant right now too. Got pregnant at 15 and was also 4 months on my 16th birthday.. I'm due next month. I use to drink and smoke too, a lot of teens do it so I'm Not judging You for it. I made the choice to not to that stuff anymore when I got pregnant, And I honestly don't miss it. Every time I get tempted I Just think of my baby girl and it makes it so easy to say No. My baby's daddy use to smoke and drink every day, but he stopped for her too. I know life's hard espically getting pregnant so young, I know how You feel. Just think of how much your love your baby and want it to be in your life forever, and it will make it that much easier to say no. You don't want them to get taken from you, and I think having to give your baby to another family by someone adopting it would destroy you. So just try saying no to the temptation a little more, eventually you wont even miss it.
Ohh also your post is called adoption. Obviously your not making her life that perfect if your thinking of giving her up. All im trying to do is give you advice but your getting defensive
Its really starting to irritate me that I cant read a post thats the least bit controversial without seeing all these women jump down someones throat. You can give ur opinion without being rude or judgemental. Im starting to think maybe this isnt the best place to turn to for advice..
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@esperanzA... think about the consequences that it faces.... smoking in public(parks) is not a good idea... You can get reported to CPS girl... Think about it!! Baby needs YOU and ONLY YOU!! She still inhales some from your penetrated clothes... you cant smell it, baby can...
Think my friend...think...
I think you should probally choose another outlet to relieve stress, but I dont think that makes you any worse of a mom than a woman who doesn't make sure her child is eating healthy. Either way each instance is causing or can cause a baby health or emotional problems.
Be strong, love!