opinions

momaynotmomaynot
edited November 2011 in VENT (keep it peaceful!)
My husband asked me to go to a football game on Monday. We have been to many and will again in the future but I don't think it is fair for him to be gone to work all day then gone all night when dd is only 5weeks old. I am the only caregiver during the day and I need some relief when he comes home. Not that he does much anyway but the little bit helps. He does something one day every weekend like golf etc. And now he wants to be gone all day and night too! I left once for two hours to get my haircut and he said he didn't want me to leave again. I just don't think it is fair and it is selfish for him to ask me and make me be the bad guy because I say no I need some help. It would be different if she was a little older and didn't need.constant attention. What do you think am I being unreasonable? Thanks for your opinion.

Comments

  • Mimii36Mimii36
    I think he should be able to go have fun BUT only if you can do the same!
  • mommyof3girlsmommyof3girls
    You're not being unreasonable. He needs to b more understanding. Most meb dint get it tho.
  • mommyof3girlsmommyof3girls
    Oops ment *most men dont get it
  • momaynotmomaynot
    @Mimii36 he goes and has fun every weekend for 6+ hours at a time. I just think he should been gone from 6am until midnight. I would NEVER be able to leave dd with him that long. He can barely handle two hours alone. So no I wouldn't be able to do the same.:(
  • momaynotmomaynot
    *shouldn't be
  • myressa2011myressa2011
    You are not! My bf did it through my pregnancy never telling me or thinking could pop any moment. He still does. He goes to get his hair cut, lunch, dinner, drinks and i havent been able to do shit. If he wants to go you should be able to take a whole day to yourself its not fair a baby is a full time exhauating job i do it ll day and most nighta so i feel you
  • momaynotmomaynot
    @myressa2011 it feels good to know I am not being a bi*&%. They just don't get it. It must be nice to come and go like that. I will remember this when she is w toddler and he wants another.
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