got a call last night from baby daddys first baby momma....mmmmmmmmm

luvmysonluvmyson
edited February 2011 in Single moms
Last night I answered my phone and a woman was on the other end saying..."I'm so sorry for the way I treated you." At first I thought it was a wrong # but then she told me who she was. We don't know each other but our children share the same piece of crap sperm donor! When I was datin him she used to call my phone and curse me out and just act childish....but after I found out I was preggo it was too late for me and him and he was already long gone. Apparently he just told her about me bein preggo and now she feels really bad about how she acted bc the guy isn't in her babies life either( or any of his other kids lives) so she called and apologized. She wants her daughter and my son to b a part of each others lives bc after all they are siblings....do u guys think that's ok or should I keep my distance bc I thinks she just reaching out cuz she's been there and done this with him for two yrs.....help me guys I need opinions!

Comments

  • Rissalee7Rissalee7
    I would give it a try at least for the kids they are siblings after all
  • luvmysonluvmyson
    Yeah I'm just afraid he's behind all of this...idk he's a really messed up guy I wouldn't put nething past him...but the girl seems really nice now that she apologizing instead of cursing lol
  • katlillykatlilly
    edited February 2011
    I think its admirable. And you should give it a try BUT! Try not to let your guard down too much. Let the kids be involved, but don't reveal your personal /baby daddy issues to her. :)
  • mscheylamscheyla
    I would, I don't know what I would of done if I was an only child, at least they will have a sibling to play with
  • mscheylamscheyla
    I agree with katlilly
  • clope18clope18
    Go for it. They share the same blood, I think they should be in each others lives. Good luck :)
  • natashalynnnatashalynn
    Give it a shot, but don't rush to be her best friend. The kids deserve to have a chance to be family.
  • GabrielalecocoGabrielalecoco
    I think you should do it afterall they're siblings! Bt you dont have to tell her your personal business! Just keep it strictly business for the sake of your children then again you dont wan your son not knowing he has siblings cause he could run into her & (god forbid) date each other
  • mommy3mommy3
    Do for the kids, but I wouldn't send your kid to her gouse alone too soon.. have momma baby play dates & such, but keep it for kids only ya know?
  • ericka_lopez11ericka_lopez11
    I would give it a chance. If you dont like the outcome after a couple of tries decide from there.
  • sara102011sara102011
    Do it. You may become best of friends!! Take that baby daddy!
  • VictoriaBVictoriaB
    My mom hated my half brother's mom for ages until they finally let us hang out and the two of them became friends. My half brother's mom is really artistic, like me and my mom, so we would hang out and do crafts and make candy. It turned out to be a good thing.
  • JerseyMommyJerseyMommy
    I think u should give it a try bc how else r they going to meet if the dad dnt do it....I think it would b good for the kids
  • expectingbabynumber3expectingbabynumber3
    For the kids yes but always keep ur a distance good luck
  • kailiasmommakailiasmomma
    My oldest daughters fathers bm did the same thing. She just texted me out of no where one day and was like I'm pregnant with marcs baby. I was like good luck cuz he ain't a good dad. She was nice in the beginning and boy did she turn. I almost beat the crap outta her a few times for running her mouth. She wanted to have are kids no eachother or so I thought. They just wanted to take my child and act like a happy family with her. That crap wasn't happening
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