Nothing after my baby but when i was pregnant i was in extreme pain to the point i was hospitalized for 2days. When i went for a follow up my dr said "you knew the consequences of getting pregnant." It kinda irked me. I wanted my baby.
Another time at the drs when i was prego.... Dr looks for the heartbeat with the doppler... dr finds heartbeat.... "looks like you haven't lost your passenger." Like wtf its called a baby and yeah she's fine. Kicking like always. She better still be there.
When my son was younger I'd always get the "oh what's her name?" Blue, blue , he is wearing blue ..are you color blind?! I know he is beautiful but really?! Also not so much about the kids but people seem to have a prob believing that I'm with my fiance...one person even said "I would've never pictured you with a black guy"...ok...?!
I get the kid having a kid cuz i don't look a day over 15. Lol but Im 21 and married. I go out with my grandma a lot and people are always like "thats so nice of your grandma to take care of you and baby" Im like um no.. I live in my own house and pay my own bills. Lol.
This is when I was preggo. My daughters name is Jazmyah (pronounced exactly like its spelled Jaz-myah). I had a customer(white lady) ask me what I was naming my daughter..I told her the name and she says..."her father must be black" I wanted to curse her ass out right then! Old hag better be glad I needed my job. I mean don't throw some race card at me like that. I thought it was rude! Yes he is black and I'm half black! I didn't choose her name because of our races tho. Then she ask me if I had a middle name for her..at the time I didn't yet so she says "I hate it for you. It's gona be hard to find a middle name for the crazy name...I'm going to think of something simple for you" I swear I just had to walk away.
Old people telling me that in their day they didnt sterilise, gave food early, always gave water, put baby outside in the snow, put whisky on gums, left to cry, etc etc and their kids turned out fine. Well if 30 years of research since then tells me not to do those things then I wont! Grr.
I had an ex call me a slut because my kids have different dads. Mind you, they're 5 years apart, so it's not like I got knocked up right after I had my son. Just because your kids have different fathers doesn't mean you're easy, it just means things didn't work out with the first childs father. He had the audacity to ask why I deleted him from Facebook after that happened lol.
The race comments are so messed up! What, is this 1960 all over again?! My grandfathers wife "I refuse to call her grandmother" was never accepting of me and my brother because we're Mexican. Racism and prejudice pisses me off. X(
@Mimii36, Ugh!!! Ignorant ppl really piss me off! @three_cats_n_a_baby, your mil is crazy!!! @LilSugarsMomma, Your ex sounds like a real jerk & ur grandfather's wife should be ashamed of herself. SMH.
When i went to pick up my sons birth certificate the guy says pssh everytime u have a baby money gets taken out of my check no more babies, and when i was leaving he goes dont forget no more babies, i wanna keep my money, happy holidays... Fuk u guy
I was in Target once and my daughter was crying because she was hungry, so I started fixing her a bottle. This lady stops and stares at me so I say "can I help you?" She says "I was just making sure you were gonna pick that baby up since she's crying so much." I gave her a shitty look and in the most sarcastic, rudest voice I could, I say "I'm fixing her a bottle, is that good enough for you?" She looked shocked and just walked off. I was so hot!
I get the your a baby having babys....mind you i been married 5 years and got 2 kids and also i get ragged on bc of my lip piercing and my tats like just bc.i express myself i can't have kids? and yes my kids can express them selves as well....when there 18 and it don't cost me anything. i don't believe in consent forms. if.you need one your too young.
I'm with @Mrz_Jackson. He definitely should've been fired! @ripKaydence, I have 11 tats & I was always a little self conscious around the other moms until I moved on post. It's like every SAHM here has waaaaay more than I do. Lol
My fil has all the best ones! He's the rudest ass ever! I'm gonna kill my baby (I have ppd), I'm a drug addict (cuz of the ppd med and anxiety med), i obviously have issues with men and need therapy (cuz I stand up to him), I need to grow up and stop giving my colicky baby colic and gas pills cuz being a parent is hard and doing that is just taking the easy way out and I just constantly medicate my son, I was attempting to abort my son cuz I caused my own morning sickness, he knows my child better than me and I'm dumb for believing that I can't give my 16 week old baby solid foods, dumb for thinking the type of bottle I use can cause an upset stomach, dumb for believing that a baby can be over simulated, all I do is sleep and make my husband take care of Damien 24/7 even though he works full time (he doesn't see the fact that I'm up all night with baby and sees that Derek lets me take naps so I must be sleeping all night and day?), ...... Well there's more but I'm sure you get the point LOL usually people have issues with their mother in law, well I love her and wish we lived near her. But we live down the street from my fil and he's the in law that makes me miserable!
This pisses me off just reading this... Some people need to just shut the f up. my sister in laws were my problem the day i got out of the hospital w our first (actually b4 we even got out) our baby was pink (like normal) when she came out so they came to c her then told everyone she wasnt my husbands because she was "too dark to b his". It pissed me off because i almost died after her delivery from complications and they knew that my husband was the first (and only) man i had ever been with. Some people r just so stupid!!!
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@tashalou, damaging? Really? Lok
@gatorbob, lol!!! You do not!!!
@gatorbob, Lol.
Also not so much about the kids but people seem to have a prob believing that I'm with my fiance...one person even said "I would've never pictured you with a black guy"...ok...?!
I swear I just had to walk away.
@three_cats_n_a_baby, your mil is crazy!!!
@LilSugarsMomma, Your ex sounds like a real jerk & ur grandfather's wife should be ashamed of herself. SMH.
@lucyloo288, Lol! I bet she didn't see that one coming.
@ripKaydence, I have 11 tats & I was always a little self conscious around the other moms until I moved on post. It's like every SAHM here has waaaaay more than I do. Lol