where did our spines go?!
Okay so I have lots of family/friends who are in relationships that a) they complain about allllll the time, b) are abusive, physically, verbally and/or mentally and c) have trust issues because they cheated on them/did suspicious things that look like they could have cheated on them.
My question is: where are all of their spines?!?! When did it become OK for a man to treat u like crap, cheat on you, and abuse you. You don't have to stay with those sandbags, children or not. By not doing anything about it you are allowing them to think that they can do that to you. Get your spine out of his closet, dust it off, and stick up for yourself! UGH!
Btw, I have been in a mentally abusive, unfaithful, and outright terrible relationship and I stopped making excuses, put my big girl pants on, and left the guy. I am now happily married with no fighting, bickering, and no trust issues. There ARE great men out there, you just have to be willing to leave your sad excuse for a significant other or baby daddy to meet one.
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My question is: where are all of their spines?!?! When did it become OK for a man to treat u like crap, cheat on you, and abuse you. You don't have to stay with those sandbags, children or not. By not doing anything about it you are allowing them to think that they can do that to you. Get your spine out of his closet, dust it off, and stick up for yourself! UGH!
Btw, I have been in a mentally abusive, unfaithful, and outright terrible relationship and I stopped making excuses, put my big girl pants on, and left the guy. I am now happily married with no fighting, bickering, and no trust issues. There ARE great men out there, you just have to be willing to leave your sad excuse for a significant other or baby daddy to meet one.
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I can't stand it when a woman stays with a shitty man and says "oh he looooves me! He swears he won't do that again!"!i just want to say well if he loved you do much he wouldn't have acted like an ass in the first place!
My mom was in a very physically abusive relationship and after 4 years or doing all that I could to help her, I had to just tell her that I wanted to hear no complaints and when she would call to cry or complain, I'd hang up on her. She finally realized everything and came to her senses about a year after that. She's now been happy and independent and in a non abusive relationship for nearly 6 years now!!! I'm so proud of her and love her so much.