Am I overreacting....I cant stand part time dads
I've been ignoring Kay's dad's phone calls. I would never keep him from Kay but I refuse to talk to him right now bc I'll go off. He has my mom's house n cell so if he wants to check on her for a change he can call my mom or stop by to see her. I've been ignoring him bc I can't stand a part time dad. I feel like if ur not gonna be there 100% y come around at all. He lives 15 min away n only calls once a week n comes to see Kay once a week (if even that). He only comes to see her n calls once a week bc he gives my mom money to keep Kay while I'm at work. He only does that bc I lied n told him I was giving her some money too. So he basically comes when it's convenient for him. He came to see her well over a week ago n told her he would be back n never came back (I know she doesnt understand but it makes me mad when he lies to her.) He says he cannot do what he should for her bc his job is cutting back on hours. I told him if he cannot be there financially be there physically n emotionally. He doesnt do that. He makes excuses y he doesn't come see her. It's funny how he doesn't have money but can go out of town. His priorities r all messed up. Everything comes before her. He doesn't even know her bday for goodness sakes. His parents r just as bad as him. They haven't seen my daughter since she was a month old. He has a son who he see's multiple times a week n would buy him the world. I think he is more involved in his life bc his son's mom harasses him n I refuse to do that. Everything I do for Kay I do it with a smile on my face bc it's for her n she didnt ask to be here. The only person I put before Kay is God. I just wish it was like that with him. So am I overreacting by ignoring him? I've tried talking to him n he only improves for a week n then it's back to the way he's been.
Sorry so long
Sorry so long
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@ghettobetty
*sorry so long...i know i'm rambling. he makes me sick!
@second_time_mommy7 no I didnt tlk to him. He only gives my daughter about 30 min of his time n then he's gone, smh. N I think he maybe talking to someone else bc of how he's acting.