I don't agree. There is always a reason. Rarely the other partner's fault. They both need counseling to get to the root of his problem. He needs to figure out why he felt the need to cheat.
And sometimes it is just a personality trait like the link I posted above says. In that case, there's not much that can be done. Her man doesn't sound like he fits that profile though.
Sometimes the reason is they don't see what one is doing for them and still act like children..I've known a lot of women who are good to their men and take care of their children and still they hoe around. I've seen my share of cheating women too when the man is so good to them so people are just so self-centered..
I agree @salasmommy. I think my statement got misconstrued. I meant that there is a reason it happens. I didn't mean that it was the womans fault. No woman should ever blame themselves. Just rather work to get to the root of whatever their partners issue is.
@captivated I think sometimes there is and sometimes they just do it for the fun. It's sad but true. You see divorce more and more now a days I think they did a poll and supposedly women are more likely to cheat than men. ? Crazy how times change.
@captivated i think so too. I mean hey back in the day you would see men have mistresses and we were faithful to the end. Now we are equals and there's men and women going nuts -__-
I wonder if anyone now a days can remain married for 10years at least.
I'm glad he confessed and all but I personally agree with other girls that there must have been more guys don't just throw it I love u unless they got done. Two I would get checked always better safe then sorry. And also if he keeps wanting to do what he has been doing nothing is going to stop him he needs to go to consoling to help figure out why and how to fix the problem and u need to go BC of u do want to give him another chance you need help moving past what has happened BC u will never trust him the same therefore it will b hard for your relationship to grow.
im happy he confessed but i agree with the other girls sad but true.. guys just dont say i love you without wanting something (well cheating guys atleast.) get yourself checked and i like your idea of taking him to work and picking him up.. your preg you need a car more than he does anyway!
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Sometimes I wonder if it is even natural for us to remain in monogamous relationships.
@salasmommy
I wonder if anyone now a days can remain married for 10years at least.
@newmomma13 lol u know me, aint no fakin over here.