.. no heartbeat... *update at top 8w1d*

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  • =(( So sorry
  • So sorry. I know what it feels like not finding a heartbeat. I was also 8 weeks when I found out. Sending prayers ur way
  • I'm so sorry girl
  • Omg :( I'm so sad, is there a chance they are wrong. Can you get a second opinion??
  • I'm so sorry
  • @mimii36 right :( don't worry, yours will be fine. Can't have all the April babies disappearing.

    @mommylovessparkle not when the sac measures smaller than last week. Doc isconvinced. But I'm gonna demand a last st ultrasound before the D&C just to triple check.
  • Yes there is a slight chance that they could be wrong. Just about all OB wont see patients till 8 weeks. And at 8weeks sometimes its too hard to listen to heartbeat, and if he/she thinks that they are right they have to send you to a specialist just to make sure... they are the ones that wi determine the results.. been there done that
  • Im so sorry sweetie, everything happens for a reason...even shitty things...ill be praying for you everyday
  • @RedShadoe0, i am so sorry to hear this, you.are in my thoughs and prayers, this so wasnt the news i was looking for.
  • Oh honey I am so very sorry x
  • @Jenny1973 this is an infertility specialist. Can't even SEE a heartbeat... Much less hear it. Can't see a fetal pole. Still no yolk sac apparently... Chances are, doc is right I think.
  • Mama -- yes you will be mama to someone someday -- it is not karma and nothing you've done wrong. If God worked that way there'd be a handful of babies on earth. You deserve to be a mother and you will be. I know it's hard but clearly your journey is a special path. Don't lose faith. God always makes a way.
  • @Jenny1973 I've tried to.figure out some logic that the doc would be wrong.... But by 8 weeks there should be at a min, a fetal pole :(
  • Awww, im sorry :(
  • Damm im sorry i wish you the best
  • Awww I'm really so sorry, </3
  • @RedShadoe0 ; goodness, I so so sorry. I don't even have words to say to make you feel better. I'm praying you will get your rainbow baby after all these rough times. =((
  • I'm sorry, you are in my thoughts :-((
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  • @mama_kat they wanted to do it tomorrow but hubby won't be home. And obviously I need him with me.for.it. sooooo no surgery till Wednesday bc Monday is a holiday and Tuesday the doc.isn't in.... Sooooo Wednesday it is. Gives me a week to come to terms with it.
  • What if u pass it before weds then u won't be able to test the tissue. I know it may be hard to be with out hubby but that way u for ssure will get an answer..? Sorry about Ur loss I went thru the same thing too
  • @lafititz89 its.not an option for the simple fact I have to have an escort... I cannot do it by myself. If I pass it before then, I guess I will have to clean it up and take.it in myself.
  • Oh I didn't know u could do that. I passed mine at home n my.doc said to flush it o__0
  • =( im so sorry mama im sure you will find comfort soon. Chin up mama
  • I'm so sorry i was praying for you
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  • I was 7 weeks with a sac measuring 5 weeks and i passed a golf ball thing @mama_Kat
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  • @Mama_Kat when I had my blighted ovums, I had a sac the size of a lemon or so that passed. It was really easy to recognize...so if that ends up happening and it passes at home, she will have plenty to bring in. @RedShadoe0 My phone died after this AM, so if you need me for anything, message me on here. I'm sorry if you've texted and I didn't get to answer. HUGS!!
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