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DawnwaarsBaby

DawnwaarsBaby

Luving Anari... She's so awesome!

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  • DawnwaarsBaby changed her profile picture.
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    November 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    Luving Anari... She's so awesome!
    November 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    My little Anari is already like her daddy... Hardheaded and won't listen to her mommy. Get to the world!
    September 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    Today is the dd.
    September 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    3 days to dd. Anari get out!
    September 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    7 days to dd... Come on baby Anari...
    September 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    7 days to dd... Come on baby Anari...
    September 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    21 days left...
    August 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    27 DAYS AND COUNTING... I'M SO READY TO SEE MY LITTLE ANGEL:)
    August 2011
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    August 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    33 weeks today...
    July 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    7+ weeks and counting... she's got a mean left hook!!!
    July 2011
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    July 2011
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    9 weeks left...
    July 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    10 weeks til Anari's arrival...
    July 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    23 weeks today... Getting huge!
    May 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    21 weeks... Its happening...
    May 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    19 weeks, yes:)
    April 2011
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    April 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    17 week blessing... Movement!
    April 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    16 weeks today... yeah!
    April 2011
  • breewashington08
    Hey girl. Jus wantd to see if u were doin ok an if anythng more happen with ur stalker.
    March 2011
  • mommyto1soontob2
    What's ur question can't find it grrr
    March 2011
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    Just got my heart beat monitor! It's bananas...
    March 2011
  • twinkiesmom
    Hi how r u? I'm commenting here because I didn't want to have the convo quite as publicly but couldn't figure out how to inbox u which may be because I'm on my phone but that's neither here nor there. Honestly I don't understand. N this day and age u know if u have sex, u may become pregnant. N to me it seems selfish to not put that innocent child first and give them the best life you can whether that be raising the child or giving him or her up for adoption. I'm not trying to bash u or anyone else n I say "u" n a general sense not you specifically.
    March 2011
    • DawnwaarsBaby
      DawnwaarsBaby
      Hey, I wrote you back yesterday and for some reason my computer froze... so I won't write it all down again. I will say I appreciate you inboxing me and letting me know that it was not about me... On this site, many women are scared to post their experiences on here and since I posted my story, I've had many women come and thank me and tell me how I told their story for them. I am not with abortions as a birth control method and I've repeated that over and over again... but I am prochoice. The last elected abortion I had was over 12 years ago and if I had to go back, although I live with the guilt, I wouldn't change a thing. Everyone has their own opinion of how they feel about abortion, it indeed is a touchy and emotional subject. I didn't feel like your comments were rude and I do respect your opinion totally. I responded alot on the post because I led the discussion with my personal experience. So, thanks for the personal message. I hope your well and happy prego...
    • twinkiesmom
      twinkiesmom
      Hope you're well n happy too. Glad I didn't seem rude as its not my intention. I'm a Christian and we should not judge because we r all sinners and your sins r no more or less than mine n I need to remind myself of that every now n then when I get upset. It's just a touchy subject and I'm bothered by it a lot. I've agreed with some very judgemental things because it tends to be how I really feel but wouldn't necessarily express it that way because I dont really want to offend anyone. But let me ask you this... you don't strike me as a dumb person so you knew there would be backlash but you posted

      anyway and are continuing to defend ur position. What makes you care to do that when you know ppl will say things ur offended by? And a? just because you're pro choice. Why should this "choice " be left to someone who obviously doesn't make the best choices given their current position?
    • DawnwaarsBaby
      DawnwaarsBaby
      First let me start off by saying, I was raised Christian. My father is a bishop and I have at a few points in my life, been very active in the church. I'm a spiritualist now and am more so rooted in my personal relationship with GOD. I think that's important to mention because I'm believe that each day, I am doing work that connects me closer to my purpose. However, we all fall short of GOD's glory... and it doesn't serve either you or me to be judgemental. I have my personal views about bringing children into the world to have them fall prey to the system, not being prepared to have children and support them the right way or provide them with the best life possible. However, I would never voice that publicly, because that would be just that, passing judgement... and in my field of work, that's what I live with daily... people that have children who are unable to provide them with the best... I made sure when I was ready to be a parent, that I was going to provide my child with a better lifestyle that my parents provided me... just a personal note... as to your question... I know that abortion is a controversial subject... and honestly, I didn't have a problem with the backlash because I don't regret my decisions... and for the most part, no one can tell me that I made a bad decision for my life... I defend my position because it's a common position, many people make choices for their lives that many wouldn't agree with, but it is their decision to make... Also, because I shared in my experience, I won't allow anyone to make me feel bad about doing what I know was best... therefore noone can pass judgement, it was my decision, I do defend it for me and my life... I am prego now and healthy and happy and able to provide my little girl with the best... that to me is my utopia... and I think the pro choice things goes both ways... I don't think that some of the people on here, should be mothers, not once, not twice and definitely not a 3rd time... So, I feel like I should say this again... I'm not with people using abortion as a birth control method and I do think more alternatives need to be pushed, of course. But at the same time, if someone is pregnant and knows they are not ready to be a parent and adoption is not an option... for me, I just couldn't be pregnant and took the necessary precautions... abortion is a choice... a ugly choice for the humane but a choice still... I hope that helped and if you have more questions, please ask... I have also had some people send me messages thanking me for telling their story... they were in fear of being bashed... I'm not! My experience has lead for me doing transformational things... so I'm ok...
    • DawnwaarsBaby
      DawnwaarsBaby
      ooh and not to mention... i don't take any of this stuff personally... so, it really doesn't affect me like that... it more or less baffles me, because other people are so invested in this on-line angry session... this is purely experiential for me... i log off and go on to my social network and husband and family... happily...
  • rootzmama
    Hey mama did u go online to rent that heartbeat monitor? if so what website? Thank u! Btw that is such a cute pic of u n ur man ;)
    March 2011
    • DawnwaarsBaby
      DawnwaarsBaby
      Hey, how are u? Love ur pic too... yea, i went to bellybeats.com and rented the digital heart doppler, its $45 a month. They also have the regular one for $25 a month. Can't wait to get it!
    • rootzmama
      rootzmama
      Im feelin good thank u. Ok cool make sure u post about it after u use it! I wanna see how well it works :)
    • DawnwaarsBaby
      DawnwaarsBaby
      Get it, get it, get it!!! I just started a post! I got it today and it's the BEST! It came in two days...
  • sara102011
    Hey mama. I want to thank you for sharing your story. I haven't told anyone on here about my abortion bc i don't want to be torn apart
    I got pregnant during a really hard time in my life. I was an alcoholic, pill popper, sex addict, and extremely depressed. I didn't know who the dad was on any level and the ammount of pills i was taking daily were killing me fast. It was such a hard decision but i honestly needed some help or my child would suffer their whole life. After my abortion my pill use extremely rose. I hit rock bottom when i was just getting with my current boyfriend. If it wasn't for him i wouldn't be here. I have been sober since july 9 2010 and we are expecting our first october 20 2011 thank you so much for letting mr tell my story. You are a beautiful person
    March 2011
    • sara102011
      sara102011
      Its the girls like you that keep me coming on here: ) once again thank you
    • DawnwaarsBaby
      DawnwaarsBaby
      Its all good:)
  • plzletsh11change
    Thanks girl. This man kills me, he finally called me but shit at almost noon...... I am a white girl who don't know how to handle a black man. Any suggestions?
    March 2011
    • plzletsh11change
      plzletsh11change
      Nope he does it all the time. It was worse in the beginning though. I can see him cheating and always say shit and he denies it. The crazy shit about it is that his friends all got his back so I never really know either way..... Imma talk to him tonight because this hurts so much....
    • plzletsh11change
      plzletsh11change
      oh....His new suspect behavior is this house he always walks too but wont let me go, ever. He always has done that with going out too. But why doea he always randomly go see these "guys" in the morning or in middle of night? I know the guys but who else is there you know...
    • plzletsh11change
      plzletsh11change
      Girl, I just am not in a place to leave now. But get this, he came home finally at like 6 wearing earrings I aint ever seen and sunglasses I never seen. When I asked him where he got em he had a story but asked me why it mattered where....i said reallly?
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    Its a girl!
    March 2011
    • ashabash
      ashabash
      How did you find out already if you're only 13 weeks?
  • DawnwaarsBaby
    So... I gotta wait til the 9th for my u/s...
    March 2011