Hi since post was closed I thought I would just give you a bit more info here.
My wife and I were using 2 types of birth control when she became pregnant. At the time it was felt that we couldn't cope and raise a child that would likely only live a week or two once born. There was also big health risks to my wife as the medication and pregnancy would likely have killed her to. I understand peoples thoughts and feelings on this subject and respect you for your views and the way you expressed them. Thank you for the chance to hopefully further explain my situation
January 2012