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  • allid
    4 weeks left! (:
    August 2012
  • allid
    27 weeks down only 13 left I cannot wait to meet my baby boy!
    June 2012
  • allid
    Wow 22 weeks have already passed time is flying can't wait to meet my baby! (:
    May 2012
  • allid
    Finally 9 weeks seeming to go by fast, let's hope the next 31 weeks go by this fast. Can't wait to meet my baby bug (:
    February 2012
  • myowndisaster23
    Hi, sweetie, I don't know your whole story but I do want to offer you some insight... I had my baby boy at 18, was in love and commited to my ex, graduated high school and was accepted to CSF. My ex begged me to have his baby, so we tried and by July 2005 I was pregnant. Immediately, he freaked, told me to abort or he was out of my life. I resolved to do it alone and was excited to be a mommy, something I have always wanted. I had a complicated pregnancy, almost died, and delivered my 1lb 7oz preemie at 25 weeks. He was tiny and fragile and fighting for life. I practically lived in the NICU for three months and had to face losing my baby multiple times at 18 alone!! I brought him home finally at three months old and he (and i) went through intense therapy to help him reach his milestones until he was three at which point I found out he is autistic. We now go through therapy three times a week, and have evaluations monthly... its hard, really really hard.
    May 2011
    • myowndisaster23
      myowndisaster23
      I love him and if I could go back and change my decision I wouldn't, but I want you to understand that there is that chance that your whole life could change. I got lucky in that I found s man who loves me and my son and is deeply involved in his therapy but not everymam is willing to sacrifice that much for a child who is not theirs. I am not trying to change your mind but I was in your same situation but I never realized when they say a baby changes your life they really do! Good luck to you and if you need advice or someone to talk to add me on Facebook. Lillie.martinez711@yahoo.com
    • OMFGimmaBABYDADDY
      OMFGimmaBABYDADDY
      *just being nosy

      ...its crazy how having money makes a difference...with the new stem cell research developments...I was informed that being able to keep the cord blood could improve a babys ability to overcome autistic traits with a transfusion. The nurse that explained it to us stressed that it only works if its the original cord blood...

      I'm kind of torn..because its expensive to keep...but, it may prove to be invaluable, if there are complications..

      *& hi
  • prayin4aBOY
    I got pregnant with my first daughter at 18 and yes we tried. I'm still married to my Hubby and we are on number 2 now and yea things were hard but we made it and honestly she was the best decision I had ever made in my life back then. She literally saved me from possibly overdosing on pills. I don't know your situation but I understand ttc young. I'm here if you need any support!
    May 2011
    • crazyhmommy
      crazyhmommy
      My lil girl did the same thing, she was two weeks and I was feeling horrible went thru a break up and bd got with a new girl, I had a bunch of narcotics I was gonna use and was in the middle of writing a bye letter for everyone when I was holding her, she then had moved and her hand went over my heart, I realised I couldn't do itbecause my heart was hers now,
    • allid
      allid
      Thanks! (:
  • crazyhmommy
    Hey I read your post sorry about how some girls are, ill support you, despite your age because there's a lot of girls who get prego young and don't want the baby but at least if and when you do concieve at least you'll want it and love the baby, always love the baby, I had my first at 19 and just recently may 6 had my new lil girl, I'm not and I wont judge you because age doesn't make a good mommy, its the love and support for the lil one, at least to me, good luck on everything hope you get your + soon
    May 2011
    • allid
      allid
      Thanks! (:
  • meghan6800
    Hey you, don't let the highly opinionated women bother you to badly. Many mean well. And remember what is all over the heart of the forum rules and what not, if you need the help w some of the not do nice comments get a Pregly rep to help.

    Go with God,

    Meghan
    May 2011
  • angelsmommy
    I just want you to know on your discussion I just wanted to be sure you were doing it for the right reasons idk if you read my comment or not but I am here if you need to talk! Good luck!
    PS If you are still trying go ahead and start taking prenatal vitamins!
    May 2011
  • allid
    I am 17 I am engaged I am 100% ready to have a baby I was meant to be a mother, I made my mistakes I've had my fun, and people really are to judgmental im sorry for what plans I have for my life but no one will change my mind, message me if you have questions but I doubt any ones cares cuz that's the way people are,...
    May 2011
  • allid
    No luck yet but hoping for a blessing for my birthday! (:
    May 2011
  • allid
    Doctor doesn't know if I'm pregnant or not took a blood test. So ill find out tomorrow and I get an ultra sound so hopefully its what we want to find out I'm so ready to have my baby in my belly! ):
    May 2011
  • allid
    Taking a test tomorrow wish me luck! Need lots of baby dust for sure! :/
    May 2011
  • allid joined.
    Welcome Aboard!
    May 2011