sissylala
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I noticed that u are an awesome Italian mommy with a big Italian family and have admired you from a distance lol if that sounds stalker-ish I apologize but I was wondering from one Italian soon to be momma to an experienced Italian momma do u have any tips on training my Italian hubby? He's usually very easy to handle but he a freaking mouth on him! I smack him around sometimes but he always gets me back and I can't Chase him for obvious reasons lol and he just sits across the room from me and giggles. Also.... I'm seriously planning on having a large Italian family I'm very family oriented and I want kids that respect the fact that family comes first no matter what, I just wanna say u seem to have that and i give u kudos. Keep doin Wat ur doing a lot of ladies have something to learn from u.
September 2011-
sissylalaAwwee!! Thanks, boo! I learned thru watching my grandmother that YOU are the glue that holds your family together. YOU set the ground rules. Always maintain a level of fear in your kids-and hubby.. lol.. DO NOT allow the hubby OR the kids to run you over. The minute they feel they've gained control, you've lost it. Trust me, I have 6 boys to 2 girl ratio in my home. Huge families are awesome, you just have tohold the strength to maintain it. Overwhelming at times? HELL YES. take it one day at a time and you will be juuussst fine! -
sissylalaAs for handling your hubbys mouth... forgetaboutit. That's the italian in him. My husband and I are the most sarcastic ppl on the planet.. except for my pops... but I wouldn't have it any other way. Just be sure to express the things you WON'T tolerate, and let the rest roll off your back ;)
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kdanielsI already make sure he knows what I don't tolerate so I guess I'm on my way there :) and as for the Italian in him, lol I totally agree there's some things that will never fade. Which makes us who we are so I guess that's good :) lol thank u for the advice! And u are very welcome hun. I hope I can keep a good amount of fear instilled in my kids, as far as my hubby goes I don't think he will ever be afraid of me unless I threaten to leave which I've done a few time sand ive kicked him out only to have him cone back begging for forgiveness when the thing he did was just disrespectful and all I wanted was an apology bc I was sick of it happening over and over. He knows I will stand my ground but we are both stubborn as hell. Again... the Italian in us lol. I'm working in letting things roll off my back but sometimes I feel like I'm being taken advantage of and I have to say something. I always speak my mind and some ppl cant handle that but that's how i found out whih ones are the people i really want in my life. My gmas was the same way. Up until she died last November my gpa followed her around like a puppy and at her funeral she made a video for us grandkids. She always demanded respect but was very loving in a rough kind of way. She and I were very close we both didn't take shit from anyone. He was very active and very outspoken and a lot of random strangers she met and had conversations or debates with said she changed their life. She was an amazing lady but she only wanted three kids, nd my aunt made up for that by having seven. She's a strong lady too and is giving me advice whenever she can. So us my mom. They're all just very strongwomen and u reminded me of them so I just wanted to talk to ya and see what u had to offer me as well and I'm.glad I did :) thanks hun! Oh and I plan on getting a license to carry a gun and learn how to shoot them :) so I thought it was pretty cool that u have that knowledge too.
It's true- my gma held our family together and now hat she's gone no one keeps in tough anymore and it pisses me off I feel like my cousins are disrespecting her memory. But I live each day thinking what would my gma do in this situation? She always told me to have respect for myself and be the bigger person bc that means you have won and they have lost and they can't bother u if you're already above them. Lol I wrote an essay sorry I don't get to talk about this enough. -
kdanielstthus would've been her first great grandchild too by the way so its hard sometimes I need her advice and I can't call her :(
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sissylalaThanks luvbug.. lol.. sarcasms in the blood... us sicilians are a bunch of assholes..lolAugust 2011
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Hey I was wondering if you were twin I used to know someone who wE a twin and her nickname was lala
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Good day sissylala! I just posted on blueberrysmoms wall too... I was asleep last night when that thread became heated... you and her are really some awesome people. I wish I would have been awake to stick up for u two the way you guys stuck up for the idea behind what u were saying. Anyways the thread was closed and I'm glad u both are still here. and thank u! I don't hold it against any of those girls in fact I couldn't tell u who they were and normally I wouldn't become offended easy but for some reason yesterday I was by that comment and I take note when people put themselves on the line for a simple purpose of what's right. So thank u!!! July 2011 -
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