@spicensuga2002 oh im not worried about anything involving her at all... the only reason he has not filed yet is because by the time she contacted him again after tellin him to wait till she got a divorce we were in a different state (not divorced yet) just to "warn me" that he is gonna leave me for her and she was gonna take him to court for child support.. i told her if he decides to be with you after the test by all means id prefer he be with his daughter anyway.. and after a few days of him asking about an online test she stopped communicating with us again... @perly i just found out... (being nosey on her facebook.) that she is moving to ohio in a few weeks... would he still have to go to ohio for the test or would she have to come back... @lemusique my bf was pretty sure she was cheating when he broke up with her and like the 100 times before she claimed she was pregnant so he told her to stop lying and to leave his house(not their house, his. she lived with her parents) i dont know the exact time line of the whole thing but i know that she was married when the baby was born. i just think 8 months is a short period to be getting married if supposedly you just met the guy.. and that explains why she asked him to wait until she was divorced... but she said this b4 we were together(2 months b4) so i also think she wanted him back.. @bayoumamma honestly i would but my bf doesn't like his business going public and since i dont know all of you and you all think my name is jalem... technically its not public... @veteranswife we are saving all of them... and i dont think so either... because none of my bf and i's friends in tx know we are pregnant... the only way for her to know is if she was snooping on our fb pages... which i dont think her husband would allow.. and the court order i'm pretty sure we need to wait until we are in the child's state of residence
he should talk to a lawyer. if he cant afford one he can look up legal aid in his area and see if they think he needs a lawyer. if she was/is married and is only now letting him know that this is his baby then he needs to go to the court and file for paternity.. it doesnt cost much my friend had it done to prove that her ex was her sons father.. dont tell her about it, just do it. the courts will petition her to show up with the baby and if it comes back that it is his he will only be responsible for child support from that day on not before and a custody agreement will be arranged. if it is not his then you guys can sleep soundly and if she keeps saying its his you have proof its not and get her for harrassment.
@ trying4first we plan to do that once we are back in state... (moved for extended vacation to visit my sickly grandmother) but since last night i found out she may be moving to a different state by the time we get back...
***UPDATE*** apparently everytime she sends us messages she posts something like... "men who just up and leave their baby like it never existed need to be shot"
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@perly i just found out... (being nosey on her facebook.) that she is moving to ohio in a few weeks... would he still have to go to ohio for the test or would she have to come back...
@lemusique my bf was pretty sure she was cheating when he broke up with her and like the 100 times before she claimed she was pregnant so he told her to stop lying and to leave his house(not their house, his. she lived with her parents) i dont know the exact time line of the whole thing but i know that she was married when the baby was born. i just think 8 months is a short period to be getting married if supposedly you just met the guy.. and that explains why she asked him to wait until she was divorced... but she said this b4 we were together(2 months b4) so i also think she wanted him back..
@bayoumamma honestly i would but my bf doesn't like his business going public and since i dont know all of you and you all think my name is jalem... technically its not public...
@veteranswife we are saving all of them... and i dont think so either... because none of my bf and i's friends in tx know we are pregnant... the only way for her to know is if she was snooping on our fb pages... which i dont think her husband would allow.. and the court order i'm pretty sure we need to wait until we are in the child's state of residence