very stressed need someone to talk to

chelle

Ok so I know someone is going to tell me it is wrong and I already know but a couple months ago my bf of almost 6 years I caught doing hard drugs . I threaten to leave him but he only got sneaky instead of quiting. I found out this week that he has been using every week while I'm at work since I work nights it is not that hard to sneak around. I made him leave and he is going to rehab and quit drinking and everything but I'm just worried he wnt stick to it. I love him so much and I'm trying to help him as much as I can but I'm worried about the stress I'm putting on the baby. Any one had the Dr give them meds to help reduce stress or is it healthier to j deal w the stress ?

lovingmybabyboy

You need to remove yourself from that stress. No matter how much u help him he has to want to help himself

KrazymomofAdrian

I agree with @lovingmybabyboy

Mimii36

Its good that you made him go to rehab becuz if he does those drugs around the child when it comes or even in the house period..they can take your baby. Just try to relax yourself & think positive.

chelle

Yea he's not in the house anymore but we have a four yr old together and I'm not the one that made him go to rehab he did it on his own so that's a good sign. We have been spending time together during the day but I have anxiety disorder and I'm bipolar so I'm struggling wo my meds to begin with and I have tried but I.can't control my feelings. I dnt know what to do without him he is who helps me cope but now I feel so lost. If it wasn't for my son and my unborn I would be lost

chelle

Any suggestions on how to relax plzzzz

jcmommy

Give your self a break and pampers yourself. Maybe a Pedicure. Let him go to rehab and stay there til he gets a little better. You gotta worry about yourself and your kids first.

chelle

As good as that sounds! I'm broke I dnt make a whole lot and he's unemployed so most of the unemployment goes to the rehab its out patient and cost like 200 bucks a week but the bright side is his parents are helping me a lot he is not allowed to drive handle money not even walk outside alone! I've been w him since i was 16 I guess I will learn to be me wo him for a little while . Of course I do belive I can afford to get my toes painted! Since it takes me an hour to do them myself! Lol they looking a /ittle rough

chelle

I have the best inlaws dnt know what I would do wo them so there are positives and I know he loves us of course think it would be easier if he was a crappy person but I'm glad he is not

chelle

Has anyone gone through something like this