@brookiesbaby its not hurtful its your opinion just as I have mine I would love to get married now but I also want to have the wedding of my dreams and not settle for anything short of that but I don't believe you have to be married or should be just cause of a baby I don't want to feel forced into mArriage cause of that and I believe to be together is the same commitment as to be married loving caring and faithfulness and supporting
Before I post my comment and offend someone who does not read the whole comment (because its not my intention to offend of judge anyone) - I'm posting a disclaimer. I understand you can comit to someone & not be married and you can also be married and not be commited - but in my eyes, marriage is not just a commitment but a life long commitment. When I said "Yes" and "I do" its because I was telling my hubby, our families and the whole world that I will always love this man, want to create a family with him and want to grow old with him, and that I will not walk away at the first sign of trouble. Like I said though I understand the two don't have to and don't always go together. Besides, when you choose to conceive you choose a life long commitment anyway - whether your married or not.
I also don't believe that people should get married because a baby is involved. I think marriage should be based on love and not what you "think" is the right thing to do. More power to you for having the wedding of your dreams! I wanted to get eloped but I had a wedding for the familys sake. It sucked that it came out of my pocket though!
Yes no one should get married just for the babies sake I love my fiance with all of my heart and when I moved in that was my commitment for the rest if my life because I have two other children to think about and we are going to get married we just want to have the wedding we want and not sacrifice our day to please others....that would be neat to elope go to Vegas get married and already be in vacation for your honeymoon
I've always wanted to marry my husband (I've known him since kindergarden) but I was not big into weddings. I would've loved to gone to Vegas to get eloped and everyone was on board with it except his parents. I wouldn't want to have been married without his parents being there so I had a small church wedding.
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Besides, when you choose to conceive you choose a life long commitment anyway - whether your married or not.