Friends? Help

Binter03

I was wondering if this had happened to anyone else. Im 22 and just recently found out I was pregnant, with my schedule and my friends we only get to see each other on the weekends. They keep telling me they want to hang out so bad but I find out the only reason they can't hang out with me is cause they want to go out to the bar. I mean I don't expect them to change their lives for me but I thought once in awhile so we could atleast see each other. My feelings are kind of hurt idk if its my hormones or what.

Babyluv_3

Go out have fun cuz once babys here its gna be hard to get out ..just be reasonable n don't. Drink or get crazy..I go out n I'm 7 months I go out cuz my man loves to see his friends so we go to a quiet bar n dances n he drinks I sip on water n talk all nite with the guys & girlfriends ..lol its fun

jade

Hey girl I'm 22 as well and I'm actually pregnant with my second I've had my fair share of friends who are unable to be considerate of the fact that your pregnant and may not want to club or go to the bar... but rather just spend some quality fun time with friends. I'd say just keep being open to the opportunity to hang out with them, but don't count on it. Sometimes ppl our age are not at the point where they are cool with the differences and responsibilites that motherhood brings. But that doesn't mean they can't still be good friends. It just means that they are not at the same point in their lives that you are. Try and find some support from others who don't mind getting out with out going to a bar

TechGirlPa

I agree with jade.

Binter03

Thanks guys that definitely helps