Losing my baby

soon2be3

Er told me today I was having a threatened miscarriage and put me on bed rest to see if the bleeding stops, but since I got home the bleeding is still light but theres some clots and cramping so I'm pretty sure I'm losing this baby .. We are so upset

starrxoxo9

I am so sorry I'm almost 9 wks and that is my biggest fear...how far are you?

babyallen

I am so sorry to hear tht and my prayers are with u and your family.

soon2be3

Was thought to be 7 weeks but ultrasound only put me at 4w5d.with very low hormone levels .. This is devastating ... I just keep praying its not a miscarriage and everything will be ok ... But the clotting and cramping makes me think otherwise

heatherlynn

Okay the er does not always know what they're talking about. A friend of mine was told she was having a threatening miscarriage and she did not..the dr said it was her just stretching. I bled when I was 17wks and they told me that my cervix was short and put me on "bed rest" luckily I had a dr appointment the next day n soon had an ultrasound showing that my cervix was not only NOT too short..but long. Its a good idea to stay on bed rest and take it easy until ur next ob appointment and double check before u get too upset...good luck

soon2be3

Did she have clotting with her bleeding

soon2be3

Did she have clotting with her bleeding

starrxoxo9

Good luck & stay strong

jessi21

I was in the Er Sunday for bleeding, the Er doctor told me I was having a Threatened Miscarriage but my cervix was closed and everything looked fine, she said that me and the baby would be ok.... The next morning I went to my clinic and the doctor pulled up my bloodwork from the Er and told me that I had lost my baby early on... It doesn't make sense. I am now waiting for blood work to come back to see if my levels are dropping... I pray that there wrong. I know how u feel. I just wanna give up on everything.

soon2be3

Yeah none of this makes sense ... But the ultrasound DID verify a gestational structure so I didn't lose it yet

jessi21

They haven't gave me an ultrasound. The doctor that said I lost my baby didn't even touch me. I'm prayin for you and your baby.

soon2be3

I'm so sorry that happened to you sweetie, I'm keeping my fingers crossed

jessi21

Thanks.

krae

I have had spotting since Sunday night. Went to the Dr. Monday they called my instance a threatening mc as well but that term just means its possible...they did an ultra sound n I was only 5 wks n 5 days when I thought I was 7 wks and 3 days based off my lmp but the baby had a heart beat and my Dr. Said sometimes women just bleed during early pregnancy but go on to have healthy babies! I know its hard I'm an emotional wreck just don't give up in your lil one yet

soon2be3

Write same thing happened, thought I was 7 weeks but ultrasound put me at 4w 5d ... Are you still bleeding

krae

Yep unfortunately

soon2be3

Did you have any clots with your bleeding, because I'm not bleeding alot .. But the clots are scaring me

jessi21

I've had clots, some say there normal.

krae

I'm really not sure it kinda seems like it but they are about the size of the tip of a ball point pen. The same thing happened to my cousin and I talk with her daily to ease my mind she bled and cramped and the baby was past due when she had him. She even had a toilet bowl full of blood at 8 months and er said she was fine and she was! I'm not bleeding much either butdef. Enough! Are your clots very big? I have heard its normal as well ...ur in my prayers

kara_lamek

Have them do your blood work again. I pray its not a miscarriage. Good luck hun.

Prayin_4_twins

Prayers for you & your fam!!!!! Keep us posted! Just take it very very easy!

patientlywtng

They will continue to do bloodwork, that tells everything, if they drop then it is a mc. I've had two, cramping and bleeding. Wait until u do more bloodwork.....

soon2be3

Not big, mostly the size of a pumpkin seed .. I've had the same pad.on since noon.and it just now got to where there was actually blood on it I know tmi.but dont know how else to explain it

krae

Yeah I know what u mean it takes a lot of tmi when u are worried about your baby. I seem to actually bleed the most when I pee. I have had one pad on today to and just have like a dime sized amount on it

soon2be3

Same here, mostly when I pee .. And I'm sure some of the bleeding is because they gave me an extensive internal ultrasound.

Mnbaby3

Im sorry, hoping for the best for you and your family.

mixd_mommy

Dey say when dey give yu an internal ultrasound yu may bleed fa a lil while. Dat happend to me w l my first pregnancy. I bled a lil but dat wuz from stretching.

krae

I think we may just be those lucky ones that have bleeding during pregnancy because its been a few days and if we had a mc u would think we would have crazy pain and at least quarter sized clots..we must stay in touch since we have such similar stories...try to stay positive even though its hard

soon2be3

Mine just started today though

krae

True but my cousin also had a mc before her son and she didn't even know she was preggo and she said it was a lot of blood all the sudden, huge clots, and pain to wear she couldn't stand up

soon2be3

You have certainly made me feel better thank you so much, trying to stay positive