I need help

Countrygirlntulsa

Ok im 7wks.3 days preg wit a guys baby iv only been datn since bout dec, our kids do NOT get along, an he drinks, an has hit me 2times, im kickn him out, but I dnt really wana have this baby! I cant afford another I got 2 already, an I dnt want nothing to do wit him, if it was u, wat would u do??

jay_brad

I wouldn't even think of an abortion!! If that's the question at hand.

coolbabybeans

I personally don't believe in abortion so my advice....if you think you could give it up, is to give the baby up for adoption. There are so many deserving people out there who want a baby. You would be making some wonderful family's dreams come true. I also think you are absolutely right to kick him out....maybe u could have done it sooner him hitting you is not ok and you don't want your children to see you tolerate anything like that. But, give it some more time. And really give it some thought as to what you wanna do. It's your baby too, its not just his and you could see if he would give up his rights, good luck to you hun

HappyTimes20

As you get bigger u wont want to abort hun. U will grow to love him or her in ur tummy. Even if the baby's father is worthless, the baby growing in you is still your child.. you raise that baby the way your raising ur two lil ones with no difference. If you don't want the father involved just get an appointment to have full custody of the baby.. but just so u should know, every child needs a mother and father figure, you know that feminine and masculine role. So just be sure to think about his or her life, and what you want is best for your baby, not because the baby's father is pethetic, but because that is your child..

Countrygirlntulsa

Thank you everyone!!! ima do more thinkn!!!

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CozyBear

The baby is still apart of you. I think you should look into adoption choices. That would be such a blessing to another person & you'll be giving the baby a chance at life. My friend had an abortion 2 years ago & is in severe depression about it. At first she blew it off ( I know that sounds bad) but now she just cries almost everyday over it. I feel so bad for her & she regrets it everyday & just recently started counseling. Another friend of mine did adoption & the family that adopted her son paid all her medical bills to the hospital. Something to look into I'm sorry you are in this situation. Prayers sent your way.

BigBelly

I say you should do whatever you feel is right! It may be adoption or it may be an abortion but whatever you decide has to be your decision! YOU know what you can handle in your life at the moment not anyone else. Good luck!

survivormommie3

Well I wouldn't have been with him to begin with. I would leave his ass behind and make a real life without him. If u really don't want a baby go full term and give for adoption. And don't go back to him

Jess510

As stated by others please consider adoption.

huneybee

Do what u think is right forget the other opinions

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