how do u cope?? pls help!

shyshy
edited April 2011 in Pregnant
Well I finally made it to 9 weeks but there is no excitement here it has been 2 wks and my numbers has not improved they are suppose to double every 2 days. I've been sick, cramping, spotting, and all around miserable. For 9 wks just to be informed this am that they fear the worst. They want me to get "more" testing "more" blood work "more" ultra sounds but honestly ladies I CAN'T TAKE ANYMORE OF IT! I been in and out the emergency for a whole wk straight. This is taking everything out of me I have 2 babes already that need me I feel terrible I'm always sick, my mom is getting married in 3wks my sis will be home from NY on wednesday HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS?? I'm so hurt and weary I don't want to wait till I'm 12wks to hear the samething and continue going thru this for nothin :-S

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  • PEsMommYPEsMommY
    Awe sweetie I'm sorry. I kinda had something like that back in feb 09. I work as an STNA and was on a combative floor. I was 8 wks pregnant and had crampinh, spotting, and tons of problems because I was attacked by a resident. I had bloodclots in my uterus and after a couple weeks my dr told me I could try to carry but the odds were the baby and me could die. my son was 3 then so I took my drs advice and had an d & c, which I guess is almost the same as an abortion. I felt terrible and had 3 professional opinions. It was hard but my baby was too weak and so was I. Please no one bash me for this. always trust your heart and you have 2 babes to think bout too. If it's not meant to be it'll happen again, and of it is then your baby will have one great miracle story. Dunno if that helps but its a comment. I'll keep you in my thoughts
  • magcawmagcaw
    @shy I have no advice for you, but I'm so sorry that you're having such a rough time. :( @seifer12211 what a horrible thing to go through! :(
  • shyshy
    @seifer12211 although I sad about your loss I feel much better I'm not alone I had a d&c performed today my odds were to low also and taking every bit out of me I'm sad but I do not feel we would be bashed for such actions thank u for sharing and happy preggo

    @oregonmama I'm sorry that happened to you I coulda bare such your a strong person I couldn't bare. I wish you the best I knw those apts can be weary having them so often you can be strong again :) have a great preggo
  • PEsMommYPEsMommY
    @shy I'm sorry for your loss too, it's such a hard decision. If you wanna talk or anything feel free to contact me.
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