money stress's and all that other crap

Septemberbubby

So over money at the moment . Feels like I'm getting no where . I work full time but have used all my sick days up . And my arshole manager tries to fuck with my timesheet so I get a Shit pay, ripped me of like 10 hours this week and now I have to wait until next fortnight to get it bak. I work so hard and bust my arse to do my best and ever since they found out I'm pregnant they treat me like an invilid and its like they are trying to drive me out. Won't let me have the opportunity for certain things and use my pregnancy as the reason . I'm nearly at breaking point but I don't want to let the bastards beat me. Goin to work as long as I can they can kiss my arse . And to top everything off I'm so broke all my money is spoken for as soon as I get it . Me and my boyfriend are both living off my shitty wage. Don't know how the fuck we are even goin to be able to support our baby. Things just feel like they are goin from bad to worse. Also the car battery completly died tonight when we went to the supermarket so we were stuck in the rain to try and get a jump start only to find its leaking acid and will need to be replaced. It's easter on the weekend an now we can't go anywhere or money to celebrate, I'm so over everything sorry for all the sooking but I need to vent. Just want some good luck for once

salsabia

Yeah adulthood sucks! We don't all get the perfect husband with the perfect job, perfect house, planned pregnancy and get to be a stay at home mom. My life has spun out of control over the last year. Feel like everything is going all wrong. I do believe that everything happens for a reason and there are life lessons to be taught along the way. They say God isn't going to give us more than we can handle. Im about to lose my mind. I don't know how much more I can handle. Hope things get better for you. Stay strong. Hold your head up and don't let your boss run you off!

lucyloo288

Both if y'all keep your head up! I've lost two jobs because of this pregnancy already, and we're in a serious hole, but it'll work itself out like it always does. One day you'll look back and say, I made it thru that so I could be a stronger woman/wife/mother. Remember life's lessons so you can pass them on to your children. So cliche, but everything really does happen for a reason!

Septemberbubby

Thanks heaps, as hard as it is will do my best to suck it up And hope for the best can't wait for my maternity leave. Hope everything works out for you Both aswell . Stay strong and happy and really a big huge thanks for the support and kind works xxx Xxx xx

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magcaw

When I was pregnant with my first I lost my job the same week we bought our house, my unemployment ran out a week before my due date, I was going to food banks to feed my family--it was nothing. Things turn around, tho. It feels like it will never end, but it does. It's horrible when it happens during pregnancy, tho. you guys will be ok.

ready2bmommy

Have you tried a local food bank or wic? Those programs are designed to help people in a situation like you, and if you could get food without paying for it, that money could go elsewhere! Keep your head up! Some of the best memories my husband and I have are from when we were too poor to rub two nickels together!

expectingbabynumber3

Girl I know how u feel. At times I cry n tell myself God is in control keep ur head up