twins and alone

bree

I'm pregnant with twin girls and have a 17month old son. My husband has recently left me to be with some other girl younger 19. I'm 23 and right now trying to do this single mom thing is hard with just my son I can't imagine doing it when the girls get here. All I do is pray am trust god that he can fix it. Anyone else going through tough situations too?

hupe23

Sry where u from

bree

New York

hupe23

Well he's a piece of poo and u will do better i think u will be fine its going to be hard but i think u can

ashleywiini16

Oh man, Im sorry:( I don't know what kind of man would leave the mother of his children... especially while pregnant! Its so sad, and selfish. I agree, pray and lean on god. I hope you have friends or family close to help when the girls arrive. Im not in the same situation but I can imagine how scared you must me. Ill pray for you:)

bree

Thanks I'm here in n.y without family just his and I hate asking them for help feels like im a burden. I have some friends that help when they can. It is selfish n he has never said he's sorry or anything just hw don't want our marriage an to him its been that way for awhile. It hurts everyday.. I just pray that god can change his heart cause I don't know what else to do

1TiaNVelly

I had twin boys in 05 while in the middle of nursing school with 2 sons at home already. Girl if I can do it you can do it. Be strong

aeri

@bree hey lady, I'm your neighbor in Nj and going through a similar situation. (Minus the son and the extra peanut in your belly). My guy left too..right when he found out I was preggers. (Nearly a month and a half ago now) You will be ok. It is for the best as obviously he was not a great guy to begin with. I'm sorry you are going through this alone (with twins at that). You are obviously a strong woman and that's what makes u a strong mom already. So focus on you lil man and those two growing baby girls to be the best mom you can. Lean on you family and your friends no matter where they are! They love you and will never think of you as a burden. My family has had my back since he left and have done everything they can. Those who love you will be there, location isn't that important. I'm here with ya! When you feel sad, think of your gorgeous son! Call a good girlfriend and talk and cry it out! My gfs have been a huge help through my hurt, anger and moving on.

If he hasn't apologized, he might never. You are going to do great! How far along are the twins? I'm. 12 weeks tomorrow. My lil broken heart goes out to u!

islandgirl

Sorry to hear that hun. I know it must b hard but I know u can do it. Ill keep u in my prayers. God bless u.

DaiLynn725

@bree Im sorry to hear that hunni... If u ever need to talk I'm always here. That happened to me 6 days ago and let me tell you i know how you feel and what your going through. I been there done that. but the most important thing you have to do is focus on your babies and forget him.. His lost and well he may have left. but theres always child support court... Sue Him. He cant just escape his fatherly duties... Keep ya head up boo...

bree

Thank u guys I'm 21 weeks do in June. I'm trying not to make any hasty decisions out of anger n hurt right now. Im gonna try and wait it out and see what god is gonna do in this trial... his word be still and wait for me to act. N that is the hardest for me right now. But if it comes down to it I will take legal action. It sucks when you love someone so much an would do anything for them an they betray you after four years of marriage.