shut up, shut up, shut UP!
I labeled this as health, because mental health is just as important, right?
Anyway....I'm 11 weeks. I'm super bloated from 1) being pregnant (duh!) And 2) from taking Zofran. I do NOT need to hear your opinion, lady who had twins 12 years ago, that I am eating too much. I do NOT need to hear your opinion, Mom who adopted me because of infertility issues 28 YEARS ago, that I should talk to a doctor because I am too bloated. Oh yeah, 23 year old man with disability, I didn't yell at you at church, cause I know you have a disability, but NO, YOU CANNOT WATCH THE BIRTHING PROCESS!!!!!
That is all ladies. I needed to yell...I feel better. Feel free to add your own shut up now if you'd like. Have a great day.
Anyway....I'm 11 weeks. I'm super bloated from 1) being pregnant (duh!) And 2) from taking Zofran. I do NOT need to hear your opinion, lady who had twins 12 years ago, that I am eating too much. I do NOT need to hear your opinion, Mom who adopted me because of infertility issues 28 YEARS ago, that I should talk to a doctor because I am too bloated. Oh yeah, 23 year old man with disability, I didn't yell at you at church, cause I know you have a disability, but NO, YOU CANNOT WATCH THE BIRTHING PROCESS!!!!!
That is all ladies. I needed to yell...I feel better. Feel free to add your own shut up now if you'd like. Have a great day.
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So really, the fact that I can eat should be celebrated, not rebuked.
2) my coworker stop judging ppl u gave u the right!!
3) ppl please think before speaking
SHUT UP mother in law and grandma in law who tell me I'm gonna get my tubes tied after this child. You asses said the same thing to me 3 years ago and then a month later asked when we were gonna try for a boy
SHUT UP mom who said the same damn thing word for word when I told you I was pregnant with Gianna "well I wish I could say I'm happy for you" REALLY?!? Why in the hell was it more ok when I was 21 and knocked up by my loser boyfriend(13 yrs later STILL a loser and dead beat) than being married to a good man and great father??
SHUT UP friend! Our boy will NOT be tall, I'm no taller than a Hobbit and neither is my SO, so what on Gods green earth makes you think our boy will be tall? OH the fact my bump is MA-HOO-SIVE? Ummm, maybe it's big cuz I'm bloody short?! The baby needs room to grow, so outwards it is. There's no where else for him to go FFS! And please, please stop getting your Iphone out every time you see me and spouting off information you've got from your 'pregnancy app'. I know how long I have 'til my due date, I am aware how big my boy is. It's getting tedious hunny, especially seeing as though you're NOT PREGNANT and have no desire to breed. I don't want to start disliking you, I love you to mint-balls, but please, shut the f*** up
SHUT UP other people about the names we have chose! He's our boy, we're his parents therefore we can call him what the hell we like. If you don't approve of our choice then tough shit! We don't need your approval, we don't want it, so stick it up your arse!
SHUT UP random strangers! No I won't pop my child out in the middle of the supermarket, yes I am aware that 3 weeks before my due date 'is not long to go!' and if you touch/fondle/pat/stroke my bump again I will either grab your tit or your crotch seeing as though it appears appropriate for you to invade my personal space and touch me intimately, I'll do the same to you - you have been warned!
A BIG FREAKING SHUT UP TO MY "AUNT" who looked me up and down and said "you know you have to lose all that baby weight afterwards, right?" after telling me I'm going to have a massive baby (go to h3ll) and when I told her that I've only gained approx just under 15 lbs, she switched to saying how "im so unhealthy and I must not care about my baby"
IF MY DOCTOR ISN'T CONCERNED, WHY SHOULD YOU BE?! I SEE YOU MAYBE TWICE A FREAKING YEAR; SHUT UP
and to my 85 YR OLD MALE NEIGHBOUR...NO you do NOT know what is best for "junior" because your wife had a kid forty years ago, and that kid is having a kid....grrrrrr YOU ARE NOT A DOCTOR, YOU ARE NOT AN EXPERT GO AWAY
oh, and if someone who is NOT RELATED TO ME or one of my close friends touches my freaking belly one more time, I will lose my sh!t.
and LASTLY, if you were NOT there for the putting IN of the baby, nor have you ever been asked to come along for moral support to a PAP smear, DO NOT ASSUME YOU WILL BE INVITED TO THE TAKING OUT OF THE BABY, AND DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT GIVE ME ATTITUDE/GUILT TRIPS ABOUT YOU NOT BEING ALLOWED TO BE IN THERE. THIS CHILD WILL BE WITH US FOR QUITE SOME TIME, YOU CAN WAIT A DAY OR TWO TO SEE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (sister)
omg thank you so much; i reeealllly needed that...
Shut up to every friend or family member that asks bout a name and either dont like our choices or get impatient-it's our baby girl
Shut up rude classmates as previous women have stated I'm not ready to pop with twins and I will finish the semester
STFU my brother, my calves are not a topic for discussion at family get togethers and they do not resemble dwayne johnson's.
And if someone comments on my boobs, getting my tubes tied or how you dont understand y I have to have a csection n the date doesn't fot with your schedule.
Ok feel better
Honestly, I think people could find room to judge in ANY situation; which is so frustrating. but hey, thats life. you can never please everyone!!