pregnancy fear

mommyof2phelpsbby

I'm scared my baby is going to come out a diff color than me or the daddy what do I do... am I going crazy

Nykolle

Uhm how could that happen unless you slept with somebody a different color than you

mommyof2phelpsbby

Lol I should have said more but I was tired. When I was 16 I was raped by a black man, but didn't know it because I was drugged. So when my son came out bi racial I was very shocked. So now that I am pregnant now I'm scared its going to happen again.

Nykolle

Uh did you sleep with a black guy this time? And how old are you now.

mommyof2phelpsbby

No. I haven't slept with anyone but my boyfriend since we've been together. And I'm 18

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mommyof2phelpsbby

I think I'm scared tht the same thing happened n I'm just bein paranoid

ashabash

Lmao

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Whaaaaaaaaaa? My pregnant mind is playing tricks. I'm so confused but I think I understand.

It's just the trauma getting to you.

keeshkeesh07

Aw I'm very sorry to hear that mommyof2. I think its probably a fear from last time, I wish you and your baby the best and everything should turn out fine this time good luck %%-

magcaw

Aww, hun, I'm sure that's scary. you have good reason to be freaked out, but you shouldn't let yourself get caught up in your fear. You're not going crazy! You're just reliving a major trauma because this is the first time you've been in that situation again--it's not uncommon. Talk your doctor or a therapist, maybe that would make you calmer. Good luck!