how can i say this?

marabel

Ok so im 16 weeks and very thin so my belly is already their u can say so i can understand if people want to touch and i dont mind BUT every time i see my sister in law she litteraly pokes and grabs my belly to the point where it kinda hurts so i told my hubby to tell her to be gentle but she still doesnt seems to uderstand... what can i say so she can stop but i dont want to be rude either?

Karla_with_a_K

Say ouch, that hurts, calm down a lil bit

jellybelly1015

Lol, rub her belly back! Most of the time people get how uncomfortable that makes them and stop

magcaw

Tell her clearly that she's hurting you and you'd rather if she either kept her hands to herself or touched you more gently. If that doesn't work, grab her belly and see what she does. It's not rude to tell someone that they're out of line or causing you pain. If she gets mad, she'll get over it.

blueberrysmom

Punch her in the throat. That's what I call direct, not rude.

QueenBeeDarling

Lol @blueberrysmom! I agree!

marabel

Good idea ladies i just sometimes think im too nice so i havent said anything but sure will next time i see her because everytime i see her its the same thing...

mrs_shu

Lol@blueberrysmom

mommabee13

@blueberrysmom I think us preggos should get free throat punches

blueberrysmom

@mommabee13 - uh oh! Ummm... We don't? I'm in trouble!