should i leave or stay?

macsmommymacsmommy
edited February 2011 in Pregnant
I'm 32 weeks, 22 years old, in school but living @ home with my parents. My bf lives 3 hours away and he comes to visit every weekend but idk if that will be good enough after the baby comes. I would move there but I have nothing to bring to the table and I don't want him throwing in my face what he does for me. But home is turning into hell! I don't have to work, my only job is finishing school but my dad works my last nerve! He is selfish, lazy, and disrespectful. I'm just over living @ home with my dad. My mom is the best and I don't want to leave her but I'm starting to feel lke I have no choice. So my question is should I leave or stay?

Comments

  • baby4onthewaybaby4ontheway
    I would try talking to your mom before making a decision
  • andrea1stbbyandrea1stbby
    you should talk to your bf and let him know that you don't want him throwing it in your face that you have nothing to bring to the table.you guys maybe able to work things out to were he won't feel that way. Cuz your baby needs both mommy and daddy with it everyday
  • mommy3mommy3
    My best friend is in this same exact situation. Literally. & she's thinking about finishing school, then moving. But she can't decide. I told her, and telling you.. do what you think is best! For you & baby! You'll be the one it effects in the long run.. just be happy, help baby be happy, & do the best at whatever you decide!
  • jcmommyjcmommy
    If your mom is the best then stay and finish school. That would be the best decision. She can also help with the baby. So by the time you're done with school and have money coming in, you and bf can talk about the future. You have to think what is best for you and baby in the long run.
  • macsmommymacsmommy
    I talked to my bf about it and of course he says to come and I won't have to worry about anything but the baby and school but I know it won't be that easy. I also talked to my mom and she doesn't want me to leave but I just can't deal with my dad and their arguing all the time. He is HORRIBLE ladies! I can't even put it into words! This is really just stressing me out so much
  • mommy3mommy3
    I say trust the boyfriend & see how well school stills goes until baby comes.. if it doesn't help, make sure your mom is ready to have you back.
  • macsmommymacsmommy
    @mommy3 you are right! What's the worst that could happen. All I can do is try! Thank you!
  • mommy3mommy3
    edited February 2011
    Exactly.. & with a good mom, good guy.. you'll be lucky either way! Go for it! Welcome love (:
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