@mammanouchee...I feel the same way about men. It makes me furious to know that we all have to experience this and they get away w whatever they want. I have the same fears. Never trusted one man not even my dad. And now as a grown woman they only prove themselves worse than I ever thought. I know your fears and deal with them daily. I trust my gut anymore but at what point does your fear become instinct??
@paganmom men can't prove to be better than they really are... like you said, just because we are girls we should not be taken advantage of. Fear is never instinct but sometimes gets you in deeper trouble... like for say, you fear something then you quickly believe in it then it turns out not to be that way and when you try to go back to fix it, it is too late. But i am talking about a diff fear though.
@iamom yes you are right. I ask myself everyday, am i really happy with this guy? and i can't give a solid no or yes... ugh i am so helpless girl. Stupid me.
i read one good thing... hes in the army. they take adulty very very seriously. he will have to pay u a large portion of his pay and they will help you. id report his ass real fast. if my man was running around on me i would seek the most revenge possable >:-)
he already is cheating!! that would b the karma bitting him in the ass! ;-) id take him down... thats just me like i said i seek revenge. ive been hurt one time in my life took me years to love someone and if my hubby hurts me hes gonna pay as simple as that
My advise don't report. Why BC you need to think about you and your child's future. If he get demoted. This means less child support. Do you really want that. Reporting would be a stupid move.
Besides I could have reported him. Given the nature he would have went from sfc to pvt in heart beat. I would then be risking bankruptcy. Always look at the bigger picture for the long run.
Why arnt you with him? Is he doing training or somthing just curiose cuz if myn wasnt deployed id still ne at his dutty station, so seems odf you wouldnt be at his with him
I'm sorry that men have hurt you in the past. I have been hurt too. I was lucky enough not to marry any of the @$$holes I dated. I do want to reassure you though that there are good men out there. No one is perfect of course but there are men who have good intentions toward women that aren't as deceitful as your husband sounds.
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believe karma bits the butt.