17 -& Pregnant . Help !

NewMommyNewMommy
edited May 2011 in Teen moms
Im 17 -& This Is My First Baby , Since Im New To All Of This I Need Somebody That Has Been Through It -& I Can Talk To / Ask Questions To . I Freak Out Over Every Little Thing Such As Stomach Cramps But Its Because I Have No Idea Whats Goin On In My Stomachhh , Somebody Help !
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  • jbandno3jbandno3
    Just ask your questions, most people will answer!
  • grnfish73grnfish73
    How many wks are u?
  • grnfish73grnfish73
    How many wks are u?
  • Angel452Angel452
    edited May 2011
    It will be ok. I was 16 wen I first got preg. n im 19 now n preg. With my 2nd. How far r u?
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    Im 6w 4d .
    -& Ill remember the capitalizing thing , thanks.
  • grnfish73grnfish73
    Congrats! Welcome!!!! Im preggo with my third and I'm 27w 3d
  • munchkinmunchkin
    Well im 16 goin on to 17 dis is my first baby im 26 weeks im here if youh wana talk.
  • ghettobettyghettobetty
    I was preggo at 15 had my baby at 16 and now 26 and preggo with 3rd n last. I been through a lot! Tons of ups n downed but doing great now.... and questions I'm here. :)
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    Thank you munchkin , im gonna need it . Believe me ! Im not exactly sure how this whole pregly thing works yet or I would have tagged you .
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    Thank you ghettobetty . Im sure ill have more than enough questions for you .
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    Hi. Put the @ symbol in front of their name and they'll get a notification like this @NewMommy
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    Oh @blueberrystorm . Thank you .
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    Lol! BlueberrySTORM. That's so cute! :p
  • boofacebooface
    @blueberrysmom we're changing your name!

    Welcome @newmommy most of us are pretty helpful, some of us are clinically insane, but for the most part we're just hungry :D
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    You are truly insane! If you change my name how will your fetus recognize me when I find her?! Hmmmm... Poor Abby! @booface :-?
  • boofacebooface
    @blueberrysmom this is true...we'll change it upon her safe return!
  • blueberrysmomblueberrysmom
    @booface - deal!
  • MomOfThreeMomOfThree
    Welcome & Congrats! I'm 21, I have one going on 5 one going on 3 and the other is two weeks old, I keep this app to help out a friend that I made on here she's only 13 weeks so I'm here if you ever want to talk or ask anything when I got pregnant it changed my life for the better. Congrats again sweetie. (Sorry if that offends you, I call everyone sweetie...country girl with a bad habit...lol)
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    @blueberrysmom , im sorry about that . I read it wrong . I was in a hurry , tryin to text at work =\
    @MomOfThree , Thanks -& no it doesnt offend me ... That was nice of you to keep yours to help out a friend -& seeing how your experienced (with 3 kids) ill be asking your advice alot .
  • MomOfThreeMomOfThree
    @newmommy thanks she's a very sweet girl & we had a lot in common both with rough pregnancies. That's cool ask away I check it almost every single day. How are you feeling? Are you excited?
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    @momofthree ; well I feel sick EVERYDAY , My Boobs Are beyond sore -& I have stomach cramps alot . I Am very excited although my pregnancy wasnt planned so im scared , me -& Bd both work but im worried about how im gonna get by . Its been very stressful -& im only 6 weeks 4days . -& I feel bad because I know I drive my Bd Crazy , im SUPER EMOTIONAL !
  • MomOfThreeMomOfThree
    @newmommy I know its easier said than done but try not to stress its not good for any of you. Well if it makes you feel better none of mine were planned but they all came around times when I was in a bad place or something like that they have each got me through something. Start saving now if you can 20 back each week or more if you can it will defiantly help. You'll make it through with flying Colors. I know I drove my hubby crazy, he would have to go for walks to get away from me, lol. Tell your babys daddy that its all worth the crazy in the end!

    As far as your symptoms all very normal nothing to worry about unless your cramps hurt very bad like huddling over, be sure to drink tons of water I was put in the hospital because I was so dehydrated.
  • huneybeehuneybee
    I'm 17 :D I was due yesterday but still havnt hatched my little man..
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    @Momofthree Well I Make $800 A Month At Work -& I Only Have 1 Bill -& Thats My Phonebill - My Boyfriend (Bd) Also Makes About $800 But He Has A Ton Of Bills So It Sucks That Ill Be The Only One Savin Money Right Now . He's Supposed To Be Joining The Military So Im Hoping That Works Out Because We Would Have Nothin To Worry About . I'm Thankful My Bd Is Gonna Be With Me Throughout Everythin Because I Have 2 Sister That Are Single Moms -& Struggle -& I See That -& I Dont Wanna Go Through That .

    - The Cramps Do Hurt Bad ... But Even Durin My Period I've Always Had Bad Crmps , From What People Say Its My Uterus Stretchin -& Im Guessing Thats Right Because I Havent Bled Or Spotted At All .
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    @huneybee Awe , Thats To Bad ! I Hope He Comes Soon For You ! Lucky , You Have A Boy ... I'm Praying I Get A Boy !
  • Jensensmommy15Jensensmommy15
    @newmommy welcome! Its my first too I am 18 w 3 d. If you have questions we are here to help the best we can!
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    @newmomma15 Thank You !
  • MomOfThreeMomOfThree
    @newmommy that's great I wish him the best I was going to join the air force when I turned 18 I had my heart set on it for years but then I had my first & I couldn't leave I couldn't stand to be away. Yeah its really hard I was 10 going on 20 my mom didnt have her priorities straight so I was trying my hardest to raise my 3 sisters I know its hard. I hope the best for your sisters. It's hard for me & my husband right now I had to quit my job because I had 2-3 Dr apts each week & my boss was not happy with it at all!

    Yeah as long as you aren't spotting or bright red blood or anything I would say your ok but always follow your instinct if I hadn't I wouldn't have my baby girl she was born early because of a deficiency that I have. So I always say trust your instinct over anything.
  • NewMommyNewMommy
    @momofthree Yeah , I Am Hopin It Works Out , We're Gonna Need It . Before I Got Pregnant I Told Him I Didnt Want Him Goin In The Military Cause I Dont Wanna Be Away From Him But Now That Im Prego I Have To Think About The Baby -& Not Myself . The Military Is The Best Choice We Have Right Now -& With Everythin The Military Offers We Cant Pass It Up . Our Family Will Be Alot Better Off With It .

    Yeah , I Was Really Freakin Out At First Because The Cramps But Now I Dont Get Them As Much .

    I Almost Quit My Job Twice This Week , My BF Talked Me Out Of It The First Time Because We Need The Money -& Today I Had An Emotional Breakdown Because My Boss Was Bein A B*tch -& Makin Smart A** Comments About Me Bein On My Phone -& I Walked Out But After I Left My Boss Called Me Back In -& Appologized -& I Ended Up Stayin .
  • HopefulMom2BeHopefulMom2Be
    @NewMommy I'm 26, 3rd pregnancy, first child. I'm almost 15 weeks (longest pregnancy I've had) and every pain/cramp still scares me. The one thing I noticed early with this pregnancy is the pressure & stretching feeling - no one ever told me about this but once I mentioned it they were all like "oh yeah". It's just your uterus expanding. You'll also notice more discharge than usual - this use to send me running to the bathroom because I was afraid it was blood but now I'm able to ignore it a little more. The soreness of the boobs will eventually fade away - mine are still sensitive but not nearly as sore.
    Most people seem to be pretty good with advice on here. Don't be afraid to ask. There is also a search button at the bottom if you ever want to search older posts.
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