@tinka1326 its women such as your sisters I'm trying to rid this site for.. people ttc have emotions running high... wanting to get prego. Meanwhile women get prego &are so quickly to want to rid themselves of their baby..
@jay_brad this is my first as well and its a girl! It's so crazy how much you can love something or someone you haven't really met I love my little girl like crazy already and all I want to do is watch and feel her moving and kicking all day long! I just hope I can be a good mommy.
I agree! if you have an abortion and are looking to find someone to connect with maybe find a forum that's for women who have had abortions and that are considering abortions.
It is a forum of pregnancy and everything that comes along with it. Unfortunately abortion is on that list, yes it is at times saddening, especially the posts about it but all we can do is stay out of those threads.
Abortion does not go hand in hand with pregnancy at all. People don't give their babies a chance to develop &grow when they abort. This is not the app for abortion its for pregnancy & ttc. Not weither or not mothers should keep their baby... @bumby2011 Thank you I completely agree &to be Frank those posts piss me off!!! I don't see those women as mother's.. @angelsmommy
Yea I mean why come to PREGLY an app for EXPECTING mothers and say ur not sure.... everyone is entitled to do what they want with their bodies. It's a shame but that's what it boils down to. It's just a jerkoff move to expect wo men on here to want to discuss that topic.
@jay_brad It does when your PREGNANT and not sure whether keeping the child is for you or not. And many times they come on here to discuss it and get opinions that may change their mind. Hence.... a forum. The problem is, the topic is sensitive and many women here are easily offended, therefore attack the person before speaking to them.
In order to have an abortion you must be pregnancy, a pregnancy forum, I see where it connects. If you dissagree with the threads and the piss you off dont read them.
@bumby2011 the reason people asking for answers in weither to abort or not get mad is cause they come here hoping for someone to tell them its okay & reassure them .. in which case its not going to happen. & in which case is not the place. Do you not understand y these women are offended? Some have tried to get prego or adopt for months or years .. &yet there are still women that want to think of their baby as medical waste. That disgusts Me.
@bumpgirl thank you! Is nonsense.. complete nonsense ... @angels mommy some obviously don't see the same way as we do.. I can't even begin to explain how strongly I feel on this subject.
Me either I mean I understand doing it because of medical reasons. But my saying is if your not ready for a baby don't have sex because there's always a small chance you could get pregnant with any kind of protection.
@angelsmommy & even if you do get pregnant own up to your actions your child deserves to live! He/she did not ask to be concieved.. so why kill them?!! That's the way I see it...murder.
@jay_brad But you cant jump to the conclusion of that being their reasoning for coming here and posting their situation. You would have NO WAY of knowing that. And if people can come on this forum to post about food, movies, sex, drugs, smoking a variety of topics even when they dont include pregnancy per say they have the right to come and post their situation understanding that yes they may be judged.
I understand that many have tried to get pregnant, but its NOT that person ttc's fetus nor is it their body and ultimately isnt their decision. Life isnt always butterflies and roses and happens regardless if they post a thread of it or not. Whether or not you agree with these threads, its a part of pregnancy and is an option, understanding how it may disgust you.
There are many different reasons for abortion but getting into that would cause sooo many unnecessary comments. Some see it as murder while others see it as the only option. I call it.... LIFE.
@jay_brad ... I agree with much of what you say, but how many girls / women decided not to abort based on being educated on their options on Pregly. This might not be the purpose of the site, but it's a darn good thing to come out of it.
@MikeandRonAdopt sooo true and thats a point I tried to make also. Many women come on here and post about abortion and some have changed their minds. And if thats what it takes.... who are we on pregly to push them away because we dont agree on the orignial topic??
@angelsmommy well sometimes what you believe are open options for you arent for other women. You dont know their situation and shouldnt push them off of the forum just because you believe there is always a way around it. Hear them out, they are human just like you.
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Meanwhile women get prego &are so quickly to want to rid themselves of their baby..
Thank you I completely agree &to be Frank those posts piss me off!!! I don't see those women as mother's..
@angelsmommy
In order to have an abortion you must be pregnancy, a pregnancy forum, I see where it connects. If you dissagree with the threads and the piss you off dont read them.
I understand that many have tried to get pregnant, but its NOT that person ttc's fetus nor is it their body and ultimately isnt their decision. Life isnt always butterflies and roses and happens regardless if they post a thread of it or not. Whether or not you agree with these threads, its a part of pregnancy and is an option, understanding how it may disgust you.