TTC?? I dont get it...

Bumby2011Bumby2011
edited May 2011 in Pregnant
I dont get why people TTC... and then get dissapointed. Why dont you just keep living your lives and stop putting so much pressure on trying to have a baby. It would take a mountain of stress off of you worrying, buying test just to test early, always second guessing yourselves. Yes babies are a beautiful thing but when your constantly trying.... just do it hope for the best but sheeeesh.... you guys are trying TOO hard. I get you want a baby and you may feel the time is right but it will happen when the time is REALLY right.
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  • MommyofAngelsMommyofAngels
    But like myself, when you have lost 2 babies. You will try everything you can to bring your precious bundle into this world. It shouldnt matter to anyone else if we try hard a get disappointed. This is a place to share, and we know that when ttc you will have bad times, this is where we share....thats what this forum is for.
  • juliek77juliek77
    This is not going to go anywhere good...
  • MommyofAngelsMommyofAngels
    @praying4our3rd I completely agree with you! This post did hurt me, I actually started to cry when I read it...but I kept calm and was respectful.
  • bwhite55019bwhite55019
    This is the most outrageous post I have seen unless you are in there shoes you have NO right to speak people like you are the reason this place gets so drama filled. And the sad thing is I wasn't ttc when I got prego so I can't imagine what kind of response you are about to receive from those who are ttc
  • Bumby2011Bumby2011
    No I get why theres a ttc forum, for the people that do try because regardless of whether or not I understand why... there will still be people who do. I get that. What I dont get, is that even when your charting, and your ranting and raving about ttc... nothing changes, you havent done anything out of this world or special to have a baby. Your having sex just like everyone else.
  • TheSmilingBeautyTheSmilingBeauty
    edited May 2011

    *runs from the post, like hair is ablaze*
  • purple89purple89
    Bitch. Smh. Dnt knock us unless your in our shoes thank you very much!
  • honeybunnyhoneybunny
    Kind of insensitive there don't ya think? And uncalled for this forum is not here for people like you to insult people its Here for people to find support and if you can't deal with that and be a decent human being then leave because nobody wants people like you here anyway.
  • purple89purple89
    @Bumby2011
  • junebug86junebug86
    This post is ridiculous if these women who r ttc want to test early what does it matter to u not everybody is as blessed as others a lot of women try there whole lives and never get pregnant I think @praying4our3rd said it best
  • honeybunnyhoneybunny
    I'm so offing pissed I can't think straight.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    @Bumby2011... why does this even bother you? Why do you care if these ladies are TRYING or not? Does it affect you that bad that you felt the need to start a thread about it? Not everyone can spread their legs and reproduce like you obviously have... wow.. insensitive ...
  • MommyofAngelsMommyofAngels
    Except the fact that we are working harder to bring a life into this world than anyone else has too....We may be having sex, but we have to do it at certain times, and some use certain methods. We try a whole h*ll of alot harder at trying to get our babies then you could ever imagine.
  • romeike89romeike89
    I'm not as blessed as the rest of the people I know who hook up and accidentally get "knocked up".

    If only
  • Bumby2011Bumby2011
    Getting pregnant just happens like in the past, women just had babies. No charts. No ovulation kits. Im not trying to be hurtful or ignorant, just sort of stating my opinion and didnt mean for it to come off the wrong way. I didnt say anything out of the ordinary.
  • sands3sands3
    This upsets me! I'm no longer ttc, I'm 16 weeks, but i pray constantly for those women who are still trying and have lost babies. I'm sorry to all yall that someone could say stop trying...
  • bwhite55019bwhite55019
    It does not just happen for everyone you really can't be that oblivious
  • MommyofAngelsMommyofAngels
    Except there are more things in todays society that cause woman not to get pregnant as easy as back then....you should think about these things first.... It doesnt just happen for all of us, and when it doensnt, we do everything in our power to make it happen.
  • ciceliacicelia
    Usually just ignore things like this, but this time....really? Lady are you serious? Ummm pretty sure this was a forum intended for support. There is nothing in your post that is supportive. Just slink away quietly and leave those "having sex like everyone else" alone. Truly you are not helping/supporting anyone. Especially yourself!! Because the Golden Rule applies here at Pregly. Want support then give it. Sheesh!

    @everyone TTC keep up the good work :) ladies. I am sending gallons of baby dust your way! Ignore insensitive and ignorant comments like the one at the top!
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    @bumby2011... I hope your child is born with at least an ounce of compassion and intelligence ... Lord knows he/she wont get it from his/her mother...
  • Bumby2011Bumby2011
    See, some of your comments are unnecessary. Its not even "knocked up" or just spreading my legs to reproduce. Knowing that its a good time to have a child you stop using contraceptions like myself for a few months because NO it did NOT happen over night. And thats my point. WHY spend so much time and money on all of these kits, I dont understand?? When it happens it happens.
  • jbandno3jbandno3
    @bumby2011 some women actually have medical issues that keep them from being able to conceive easily, or hubby has issues whatever it may be, it is none of your business or mine for that matter. and if it makes women feel better to have a place to come and talk about it for support I say great. I have never had trouble trying to conceive but I also would never want to be in someone's shoes that is.
  • bwhite55019bwhite55019
    And what are they suppose to do when it doesn't "just happen"
  • Bumby2011Bumby2011
    I never YOU SHOULD QUIT TRYING TO HAVE BABY. I said you should stop trying so hard and yea work at it but to that extent. Its life.... a waiting game.
  • romeike89romeike89
    If Ur not going to support, then go find another site. I don't think I'm the only one that feels this way.
  • mummytuubemummytuube
    @Bumby2011 i think thats a bit harsh mate im sure at some point in life EVERYBODY will ttc
  • KalikoJenieKalikoJenie
    I understand where you ladies are all coming from. I haven't had to worry about ttc but I have a couple friends who are ttc and I know what kind of hell you girls have to go through in order to get pregnant. I also understand where the op may have been. Coming from and maybe she didn't mean for it to be so rude sounding. Maybe she is just curious as to how or why some women try so hard to concieve and maybe she just doesn't have tact in order to approach the subject.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
    @bumby2011... I think Baby Bump is more suitable for your kind... adios.
  • Bumby2011Bumby2011
    @praying4our3rd well thank goodness because all your trying to do here is get under my skin and its obviously not working. For someone who mentioned @mamakat @mrsdelrae and @martin you've said some things far worse than needed against forum rules. But hey what ever floats your boat.
  • PEsMommYPEsMommY
    I'm not saying that this thread is in any way right, she voiced her opinion and that's that. I never heard her categorize anyone as ignornant or lacking compassion. Just move on. There's plenty of threads that have no support purposes on this forum and an opinion is an opinion.

    @bumpy2011 please just watch sticky subjects.
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