sad n hurt

tinker

So as most of y'all kno I'm not with my bd... well we're suppose to b trying to make things wrk.. but then today he tells me he dnt kno if he wants to b with me . I feel so hurt.. he says there's no one else but idk wat to think he always lies to me.. I dnt kno wat to do.. I really need him emotionally n physiclly. Even though he hasn't been here at all.. any advice plz

MikeandRonAdopt

It sounds like his loss kiddo.
Whether you 2 are together or not, he nonetheless made a life with you and needs to be there for you both. I hope he comes to his senses soon.

juliek77

I don't know your situation hun, but if he is always lying to you and hasn't been there at all for you, he doesn't sound like someone you need in your life. I am sorry if that sounds harsh. I know how hard it is, I have been there! Good luck and I am sorry he has been so hurtful!

skaihall

you dont need him.. this walking in and out mind games bs is nt good for you and imagine how bad itd be on the bby. that bby can feel your stress so deep breaths mama. i made it thru so can you

Fate

Hm.. His first baby? Scary business for FTDs as well. I dunno, I wish the best for you and YOUR baby!!! 8->

juliek77

Sorry I didn't mean to make that sound like he doesn't need to be in your life at all, just that maybe he doens't need to be in your life as a significant other if that is the way he acts. He will be a part of your life now forever since you are expecting a child together and hopefully you guys can work at that, being parents together whether you are together or not.

tinker

Thanx... I just never saw my self doing it alone.. n never thought he wuld tell me that

momof22be

Hun men who lie dont stop ever I promise your wayyyyyy better off best wishes to you and your little angel.