mother-in-law advice
Ok so me & my MIL have never gotten along. Now that its been 5 years we are doing much better but after all the things her & her husband have said & done I just can't seem to forgive them & tou can just tell when we are all together that its a bit awkward... Anyway she out of the blue tells me the other day that she wants to throw my baby shower...
1 it confuses me because i didnt think she liked me enough to want to spend time or money on me.
2 I'm scared it will be so not my kind of party. I am a very laid back go with the flow person & she is way more up tight.
& 3 I am scared she is going to want to invite people that i do NOT want there
My husband really wants us to get along better & would like me to let her do it but i just dont know non of my family likes her & I don't want them or her for that matter feeling awkward at the party.
Advice on what to do? I want to do it for my husband but at the same time I just don't want her feeling like I owe her something for doing this or anything like that!
1 it confuses me because i didnt think she liked me enough to want to spend time or money on me.
2 I'm scared it will be so not my kind of party. I am a very laid back go with the flow person & she is way more up tight.
& 3 I am scared she is going to want to invite people that i do NOT want there
My husband really wants us to get along better & would like me to let her do it but i just dont know non of my family likes her & I don't want them or her for that matter feeling awkward at the party.
Advice on what to do? I want to do it for my husband but at the same time I just don't want her feeling like I owe her something for doing this or anything like that!
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