Is there someone you haven't told about baby?
Just wondering. If anyone hasn't told certain people & why.
My story...
I've got a neighbor who I haven't told. I used to see her frequently but now not so much. Since om not driving & can't cart her around. She's also a nutcase. Slobby dirty home & family. Can't pay bills, had light shut off for bout a month because her fat hub would rather eat at restaurants & rent hotel rooms to swim than pay bills. She lets him. Haven't toldher because she & her 2 teens are gonna want to touch all over the baby & they aren't clean.
My story...
I've got a neighbor who I haven't told. I used to see her frequently but now not so much. Since om not driving & can't cart her around. She's also a nutcase. Slobby dirty home & family. Can't pay bills, had light shut off for bout a month because her fat hub would rather eat at restaurants & rent hotel rooms to swim than pay bills. She lets him. Haven't toldher because she & her 2 teens are gonna want to touch all over the baby & they aren't clean.
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One aunt...moms sis got mad cuz I told her at 12 wks while in the hospital for kidney stones. Like why I waited so long & blah. I'm 27 wks now& she's ok. My parents have passed.
@mschop my hubs kinda like that too! His dad left the fam in mid 90s so he or his mom & sister haven't seen him since. Though the dad contacts the youngest sister. Mil wants hub to contact dad buy hub doesn't care too. We have seen the dad at 2 funerals. He has never said anything & neither have we. He has seen us with our daughter...his only grandchild besides the one in the belly. Guess he just don't care. So he doesn't know bout baby #2 or whatever.
For a while, I thought maybe I wasn't very fertile because I've never had a pregnancy scare and I had a burst ovarian cyst when I was using the birth control patch. I thought maybe the cyst had damaged my ovaries, but 4 months of trying and I got pregnant.
I would have sued the company that makes the patch if I was infertile because I've always been healthy and always had extremely regular periods. All these stupid meds (hormonal birth control and antidepressants) that doctors put me on when I was a teen made me sick and mentally ill. Now that I haven't been on prescription drugs except pain killers when I got my wisdom teeth out and antibiotics when I had a uti, I've felt so much better. Sorry for the rant, I just hate prescription drugs!
I hate stories like that. It's just sad that they treat us like lab rats. I recently saw a documentary about medicating children for adhd and bipolar disorder. I think its bs in most cases. If a kid is emotional or can't sit still, its because they're just kids! Help them through their emotions or take them to the park if they're hyper. Don't stifle their personality and potentially cause a lot of brain damage because its easier to drug them.
@mrs_shu family might be able to tell at the reunion! What I've realized is people need to keep rude comments to themselves! Thank goodness I haven't had many & people warmed quickly to the idea. Being that on hubs side my daughters tge youngest at 11yrs old. But on moms side its my cousins 4 yr old but since most fams passed I guess it's goid to have more kids.