I Never Thought
Remember girls, I told you to trust your instincts. I trusted mine, and I was right.
I've been with my husband for 8 years, married for 3. We had the perfect life, we were happy. Until today.
He works in California, I live in Michigan. I suspected something the other night as we were outside. He said "There's something that has to stay between us." He left to the bathroom, and came back. I didn't want to push the issue, but in my heart I knew.
I asked him earlier this month if he was being unfaithful. He said I had his whole heart. I believed him. He came home for the birth of our daughter on July 8th. He was very secretive about his phone since he's been home. I'm not a snoopy person when it comes to him. But this morning, I had the urge.
As he slept, I opened his text messages. "Jacob" was at the very top. I opened the folder, and there were several messages saying how they had fallen for my husband. "Jacob" said the past two months have been amazing. My husbands response; "I'm glad I make you happy Bonita."
I'm not sure what to do. He's crying and I'm just severely hurt and disappointed. I never thought my perfect husband would be just like every other man. We haven't fought about it. I'm more or less numb. This can't be happening. I hope I wake up from this nightmare soon.
I've been with my husband for 8 years, married for 3. We had the perfect life, we were happy. Until today.
He works in California, I live in Michigan. I suspected something the other night as we were outside. He said "There's something that has to stay between us." He left to the bathroom, and came back. I didn't want to push the issue, but in my heart I knew.
I asked him earlier this month if he was being unfaithful. He said I had his whole heart. I believed him. He came home for the birth of our daughter on July 8th. He was very secretive about his phone since he's been home. I'm not a snoopy person when it comes to him. But this morning, I had the urge.
As he slept, I opened his text messages. "Jacob" was at the very top. I opened the folder, and there were several messages saying how they had fallen for my husband. "Jacob" said the past two months have been amazing. My husbands response; "I'm glad I make you happy Bonita."
I'm not sure what to do. He's crying and I'm just severely hurt and disappointed. I never thought my perfect husband would be just like every other man. We haven't fought about it. I'm more or less numb. This can't be happening. I hope I wake up from this nightmare soon.
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@sissylala She has no clue that he's married. I wouldn't know how to tell her.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
If there is one thing that I learned from my parent's marriage, where my dad cheated on my mother, it's that... cheaters almost always continue to cheat. If you can justify it once, it's much easier to justify it more times than that.
I'm sorry dear. Whatever you decide, just remember that the baby is not replaceable, and if need be, a husband definitley is. He's the one that is betraying his family, and showing his child, and mother of his child no respect. A real man doesn't cheat.. Hopefully things will get better for you.