Ok I don't want to hurt anyones feelings but I feel that pro choice is rediculous. Your choice was to have unprotected sex that lead you to get pregnant. You need to take responsability before you have sex and use a form of birth control if you don't want it to result in pregnancy. Abortion has made it so easy for women to be lazy and worry about the consequences of their decisions later rather than before hand. Birth control is NOT impossible to get and there are free clinics that will provide free condoms or any other type of birthcontrol. I don't know how anyone can kill an innocent baby that was the result of their lack of responsability. Rape is also never a reason for abortion, as soon as you go to the er part of the rape kit is a pill that prevents a possible pregnancy not get rid of it.
@ all the ignorant women that believe their narrow minded thoughts are true and "godly" ... sadly being raped is not a choice but bringing an unwanted child into the world is. Would it be better to keep a child and neglect it or save it from the life long heartache of being the product of rape? Now seeing as though everyone of you knows how to Google and YouTube feel free to find stories of rape victims and or children that are the product of rape ... watch those and go ahead and pass your judgment. Abortion should not be a form of birth control, but this is my life and my body. If for one reason or another I decide to terminate an unwanted pregnancy I will deal with my morality issues on my own. You know not so long ago men did not think women should have choices, whites thought black people were inferior, and in Germany hitler had the Jewish terminated based on his personal beliefs and nothing more... should we reconsider their opinions? Luckily for you we have freedom of speech no matter how foolish it makes us appear! Everyonebis entitled to their own opinion but just because you have one doesn't make it correct.
Wow all of these comments are bang out of order. What about women who are rapped, children who are abused and so on. Should they be made to keep a child or go through the pain of labour on top of everything else. This discussion should be removed and small minded people should think about being on their high horses and think about " what if it was my daughter who was rapped....people get caught pregnant whilst on contraception. It is a horrible thing I agree but this is 2011 and believe it or not all women have a choice to do what is right for them. There may well be people on here that had this dome when they were young and that probs hurts enough without you nasty people calling them a murderer. This forum is for advice and friendship whilst we are going through an emotional period in life.
@mileyrae_82 what about in unreported rape... 12 year old little girls that are raped by a family "friend" or family member? A scared little girl that feels lost and alone??? If she can't trust the ones near and dear then how could she believe that reporting such a thing would make a difference??? Now its been 6 weeks and what does she really know of a mentral cycle she just started to get it four months ago... maybe its normal to get it every few months and not regularly she's just a little girl. Is she old enough to raise a child? Can her body handle the pregnancy can she survive such a trama mentally? Oh wait that's right there's no reason for abortion there was a pill that could have been taken had she reported it... what a shame she must deserve to reap all the consequences because she wasn't a victim or anything... should she maybe suck it up? She was just lazy and wasn't thinking!
I didn't read anything past the first few posts. I had an abortion at 4 weeks about 7.5 years ago (my daughter was 6 months old) I was able to do the pill version. Idk what its called but it basically made my body miscarry 'on its own' and now that I just miscarried with this pregnancy its made me think back to it. Like, how could I do that?! Ughh its so hard. I cried so hard yesterday when I had to flush the toilet. I'm not saying this to place judgement on anyone. I'm saying it to get it off my chest. My only *good reason for doing it is I was 20 and had just had my first baby and couldn't do it again. And I was too selfish apparently to take the baby to full term and put it up for adoption. I'm saying this about myself, not anyone else, just to reiterate. And again, now that I miscarried I can't help but think, is it bc of the abortion?! I know it probably wasn't, but the feeling g is still there. Just wanted to get this out. It helps me cope. Thank you.
Hi everybody. I'm stepping in right now and closing the discussion, as it will never end otherwise. At this point many aspects have come up in the discussion and it will be informative for people struggling with abortion and visiting the forum.
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