can't do this anymore :(
So im 32 weeks pregnant, through this whole pregnancy my fiance has done NOTHING to support me! He has no job, hes not got ANY income what so ever, he says hes going to college in sept ( yeah cos that brings in money!) Hes 21 for god sake. I was laid off work just before i found out i was pregnant and had no luck finding another one, which he says is my fault huh? His mums paid for stroller, cot etc which im grateful for but was this off him? No! He wouldnt even get off his ass to put his name on the housing list with me so i say f*ck it in staying with my mum as ill have no income from u and im not expecting the benefits to pay my rent! So last night i found a job which would suit him and he started screaming at me, he wouldnt get his arse outta. bed to come my midwife appointment with me, and wont come to antinatal classes with me n my mum cant as she works so i cant go! So i tx his mum asking her to have a word and nock some sense into him (kindly) and he found out and basicly said i was a lazy bitch and i cud of stayed at my job or found a new one pfft! Im 8months pregnant!! Hes now said i have issues like really? I want a supportive partner not a deadbeat, im so fed up of it now, sorry so long needed to vent to someone who isnt gonna go kick his ass lol
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@Almost4 Yeah it's so hard though, i just cant understand why its so hard for him to step up, plus hes being the horrible one, but im leaving his ass untill he either reolises and gets looking for one, or he actually has one
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Go preggosaurous!!!
I hope he comes around but don't sit round and wait too long. You can do so much better!
And for him to complain because you lost ur job. No no. It is his job to provide.