I hate myself.. i'm so weak
Yesterday I asked Talon to come stay at my house so we could talk some more. I thought talking would help make me feel better and we have a doctors appointment today so it was just more convenient since he doesn't have a license. Part of me just really needed him to be around.. I thought it would make the hole in my chest stop burning.. we got to talking and he answered all of my questions, but it still hurt.. we talked for hours.. I had every intention of making him sleep on the couch, but when it came down to it I just wanted him to hold me all night.. we laid in my bed and kept talking, not just about what happened but everything. I was still hurting and just kept thinking.. could things be the same? If I kiss him will it still feel the same way? I thought about it for a long time.. I had to know.. I leaned over and kissed him and then I just couldn't stop.. it hurt so much, but in a good way.. I needed him so badly and he started crying and pulling me closer and the kisses weren't stopping.. I just wanted to be closer.. our clothes came off and he kissed me all over still crying, I couldn't control my breathing it was frantic, we had long slow passionate sex.. it was amazing and so hurtful all at the same time I loved it.. he just kept saying I love you baby I'm so sorry.. when it was over he laid on my chest and just cried. I regretted it as soon as it was over.. I started crying and saying I hate myself it was too soon and I have no self control and I'm weak.. he told me he was sorry and shouldn't have let it happen and we wouldn't have sex anymore. I eventually fell asleep and this morning I woke up and remembered what happened and I'm so confused I can't believe I let that happen.. am I a horrible person?
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@cheryl74 I hate that he thinks are okay now, he's been singing all morning and I'm still so upset. I told him things still might now work out, but now he's pretty convinced that they will
@traci84lucas thank you I appreciate the support
@addi3886 it's just a really confusing time for me, I need to figure out what I really want
@rckprincess2 I hope I make the right decision, I just need my head to not be so clouded first
@island_mommie2b I hope he can change.. he has until the baby gets here, I'm letting him try and make it up to me but I don't know how he will
@jasmingn i'm sorry mamma :-( it's hard, you're stronger then I am I couldn't wait that long, good luck!
@ceegsmommy75 I know he didn't use anything with her but I also didn't know he cheated before we had sex. I had a doctors appointment today and got tested again so I'll know soon