paranoid?
So my friend is over and stayed the night. Her and my bf once liked each other when younger and well long story short they have been getting more time together while she is over and I have phone calls to take and people randomly stopping by to see me. They now have this thing where they sit on our big long couch beside each other and he leans toward her. When they turn heads they could kiss they're that close. Am I just being paranoid or do you think there is something going on? Last night she wore these tiny shorts that barely cover her ass and he checked her out right in front of me. They went to bed late after me, he came to bed at 4. I went to bed at two. They BOTH slept till one pm today which is strange for her. She normally wakes up around 9.. Then while I cooked they chilled in the living room and he kept a pillow over his lap. Something else he never does. This girl loves me and he claims to love me as well but she freshly lost her virginity and I know I went hard core nymph when I lost mine. Since they have that old connection it makes me wonder why he decides to get so close to her while im right here. I know we pregnant women get super hormonal and mis read things so I was wondering what are your ladies opinion's? They finally hook up under my nose or what?
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That right there is showing you no respect. I would start restricting her visits and lay down some ground rules
@valentinasmommy I dont know. She also I should explain is my ex gf, we dated when we were younger around 16 and she has always had a crush on me too waiting for me to be single and saying she would be my babies god parent and look after it if something ever happened to me. It just occured to me she could also have been trying to look good for me.
@mrs_shu that was my thoughts since I was floating in and out of the room at that time baking brownies while they fought over the controllers and watched each other play games. Its all too strange. Im glad were moving away from all the people we know. It'll be nice to start fresh and be family orientated.
@MyLittleBlessing how are you coping with these stupid little incidents? Feel bad saying something but really wtf is going on around us? My bf is the same with feeling his son kick!! Doesn't care when he is moving. Doesn't talk to him. Still hasn't bought anything for baby. Some mistakes in this life...like they say hindsight is 20 20
@charlotteb agreed! I always kept male friends but out of respect for him I dont see my male friends Anymore. I've been super lonely as a result and she is my bff from jr high slash and ex and old roommate so I figured it would be ok to chill with her more since it wouldn't be stepping on his toes(he only worries a male can steal me away). There is no winning in this life. Just gets worse every year..