he doesnt think its a 24/7 job!
This is my 1st vent but I'm gonna lose it on my hubby soon! Even in the hospital I let him sleep, I haven't woken him up not once since I've had r son 10 days ago. But he seems to think that just cuz he works he doesn't have to do shit with the baby when he comes home. I'm up all night with r son feeding, changing, burping, pumping, washing dishes and doing laundry. He comes home from work sits with Logan for all of 10 mins changes 1 pamper and thinks his job is done for the day! He's been on the damn ps3 ever since he was born and his excuse is "hes boring right now he doesn't do anything". Of course he doesn't he's an infant! But he thinks I sit around all day watching tv while he's at work. How hard is it to take the trash out or do some dishes or a load of laundry? Raising a baby is 24/7 for me but it seems to be a convenience thing for him.
Sry vent over. Thanks for anyone who cares.
Sry vent over. Thanks for anyone who cares.
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@nicoleok87 ya he wants him at that stage where he makes faces and responds when u interact with him. He wants him to be able to talk and all. I said to cherish these moments cuz it will fly by. Then I told him he's gonna have to wait awhile before Logan is big enough to play ball and such. I'm already seeing him grow up too fast
@preggomommyof4 Omg what happened? I'm sry for u hun
@MrsG ill give it a shot and see how it goes!
@caffeinated_katie oh he has Sunday and Monday! I'm gonna make him do the night feedings and changing and not get up to help. I'll be in the room tho cuz Logan is in the bassinet by my side of the bed. But maybe he will realize how difficult it is running off of 2-3hrs of sleep every night. Then maybe ill get some damn help in this house lol!
Thanks u all for listening to my jabbering.
I took care of our son 24/7 cleaned house and cooked for him. He didn't interact much in the beginning because he, like your husband, felt the baby wasnt much fun. I couldn't blame him lol they aren't much fun in the beginning.
My son is now almost 15months old and my husband has changed 5 pee diapers and 1 poop diaper. For me its not a huge deal he works 60hrs a week and supports us so I don't really ask anything of him aside from being understanding if the house isn't spotless or if he has to get his cloths from the dryer rather then his closet. Now that our son is older he watches him from time to time so I can go to dinner with my girl friends or something too.
Different people want different things from their partner though, just talk to him & explain or even try leaving the baby with him! Good luck!