Is it just me, or would this really annoy you?

pawgio

Bd took today off and he slept all day and I went to work all day and when I got home my back and neck and shoulders all really hurt and he said he would rub them for me. He would start rubbing my back then stop and watch tv and talk to my sister and then start again for a second and then stop and talk to my sister some more or text someone or something. It was like every time I started to relax and enjoy it he would get distracted. Eventually I just got fed up and frustrated and just got up and went to my room. Why would you offer to do something for me if you don't really want to do it and you're just going to do a half ass job? He's just really annoying me right now, my sister is trying to suggest baby names and every time she says one he turns it into something stupid and he keeps suggesting stupid names of kung foo fighters and other stuff.. ugh.. I just want to go lay in bed, but it's only 8..

Nathan_n_EthansMom

No my hubby is the same way. Ill ask him to rub back or he will offer and he either gets distracted by the tv or will ALWAYS end up rubbing on my ass. Lol but I guess its the thought that counts

Jess510

My hubby does that everytime I ask him. I hate it!!!! I don't even ask anymore because it gets me so MAD! X(

pawgio

@nathan_n_ethansmom it wouldn't bug me so much if I didn't feel like I needed it really bad I wouldn't care if he started rubbing on my ass lol I would be down! But he just wants to watch this movie and be annoying!

loveourlittleone

My bf always does that. The worst is when he tries to rub my feet in between games on the Xbox.

pawgio

@jess510 I never ask, but he'll offer and be like, 'i'll do a good job and you'll feel all better' and then he does this shit it just puts me in a bad mood!

pawgio

@loveourlittleone I hate when he tries to rub my feel! He won't rub them hard and he stops after like one minute, so it's just like being teased!

garagebandfan

Go to sleep then! I wish I could sleep!

pawgio

@garagebandfan I bet you're exhausted! I don't want to go to bed for a couple hours or bd will throw a hissy fit and say I'm being grumpy

Nathan_n_EthansMom

I don't mind him rubbing on my ass but it does nothing for my back when its killing me. Lol

garagebandfan

@pawgio that's when you say no im PREGNANT and tired, and deserve to go to sleep like a child because soon I wont know what sleep is!!

loveourlittleone

Ugh I know! Lol why can't they just give us good massages?

pawgio

@nathan_n_ethansmom that's true, I would rather get something though! He's just giving me a headache
@garagebandfan ahahaha I think I'm going to
@loveourlittleone they just want us angry

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garagebandfan

@pawgio only two times in your life are you allowed to throw a tantrum....before the age of 3 and when you are pregnant (especially with your first) enjoy it while you can!

pawgio

@mama0811 oh my god I know! I mean it's a back rub not rocket science!
@garagebandfan hahaha that's a good point!

pnsw524

Haha my husband doesn't even offer. He says Ill work an extra so you can go get a massage and I don't have to do it lol

But you can be mad, your pregnant, he shouldn't offer unless he was going to do it.

hodgeslangdon

Sounds like my hubby. I ask him to rub my head and he does it for 2 seconds.

pawgio

@pnsw524 exactly he gets my hopes up for nothing!

@hodgeslangdon yep I get all excited and then it's just a tease!