why even bother

He (hubby) is p!ssin me off. Why is it that if a man breaks a dang nail they are in to much pain to even hold their child, while they sit in a chair?!?! Yet a woman can fall down a flight of stairs and break both arms and legs and still find it in her to crawl to her crying baby and cradle them in her arms as if she was never hurt. Yes I know I'm exaggerating but really. I'm expected to clean the house, pull food outta my @ss and cook dinner, clean n fold laundry, and pack for a trip, all while taking care of a fussy baby. All I ask is that when my husband gets home he holds our son while I do the million and one things he feels should be easy to do, ya know since I'm at home doing nothing all day. but no, he comes home from work and after a fight takes our son and sticks him in his car seat (we have a great swing) and rocks him to sleep with his foot. He said he couldn't hold him cuz he has a head ache, once our son was asleep he got up and went to bed leaving him in the car seat. Why are men so lazy!?! And on top of that, I went to deal with the beding in our extra room and opened the door only to find 5 opened empty stinky bags of dog food. Which means for the last 2 months he hasn't even bothered to put the bags in the trash. Does he not know that will cause mice to come in our house. I even asked him to walk them out to the outside trash and he refused. I guess I have to do everything myself.

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  • Unfortunately that's men. We are designed to be super heroes is all I can think. As the saying goes. " a man works from sun to sun but a womans work is never done" and nothing could be more true. All I ask that my husband does is the dishes, trash and feed the kids lunch while I nap. But apparently that's to much cuz he always complains. Ughh men!
  • @kailiasmomma05 - I just don't get it. Don't get me wrong, I love my son more then life itself and would do anything in this world for him. But I was the one who wanted to put kids off and he wanted them now. And its like he doesn't even wanna deal with the hard stuff. Changing diapers, the crying, feeding, even bath time(which he called, cuz it would be fun) then he complains cuz he's not getting enough time with his son. Really!?! It's not fun and games 24/7!
  • Stop doing things for a few days. Who cares if he gets mad! You just relax & do the bare minimum. If he wants something cleaned/cooked then he can do it himself!
  • @Minions36 - I did, I've even been going to my moms and having dinner their while he's at work. Now I'm trying to play catch up cuz I just can't stand it any more. (It's been over a week) I started on laundry and he says "about time, I'be been outta clean clothes for a couple days now." Really he will wear nasty dirty clothes before he helps around the house! And I feel bad now cuz my sons been asleep in his car seat for over 3 hours while I've been cleaning. I'm big on babys should be cuddled and a car seat can't cuddle him.
  • Lol..girl I woulda said "well prepare to go a couple more days without them". But then again im a pretty sarcastic person! Lol
  • @Minions36 - lol O, I thought about saying "what makes you think I'm doing YOUR laundry." But I was done fighting at that point.
  • Haha sounds good. I wouldve done something like that & then seriously not washed his clothes! & I wouldve folded MY clothes right in front of him! Lol
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